why do females bring stuff up that happened in previous fights?

Because woman are way more emotional and sensitive than men. When you hurt them , it stays with them because it REALLY hurts them. They keep wondering why you said things like that knowing you will hurt her , etc.. My husband hurt me badly 3 days ago and I still can't forgive him and I don't think I will anytime soon. He talks to me as if nothing bad happened , when I haven't eaten or slept in 3 days. Just be careful with what you say and what you do and do NOT hurt her. Apologize for what happened in the past and reassure her that it won't happen again. Woman always need reassurance and love. You need to show her that you are REALLY sorry about what happened in the past and that you are not just saying sorry to shut her up. Woman are very fragile and sensitive creatures.

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My view is this, Bjj is great (at what it is great at) mult. attacks isn't one of the "great" things about it. I train bjj and mma and love it but I will say, for me, it is not "perfect" there is no such thing as an all perfect system, unless you design it for yourself. What I mean is this, No one art covers everything you need that is designed for you. Even if there was a "perfect" art out there, which there isn't, it would be perfect for the one who created it, not for your or I. The only way you are going to find the perfect art for you is if you develop it for yourself. First you need to learn from many arts, not jsut one. Then adapt those skills to fit you, your body movements and way you do things. Then after all those many, many years you'll have found an art that is "perfect" for you. Now that you have that you then must perfect (as best you can) that style, which takes many, many more years. BJJ is great, for me, as a one on one. I've done ground with three on one and did o.k., but it was training (even though they were trying to take my head off) but I had them all on the ground. If one had been able to get up I would have been in a world of hurt. Again, the more you have the better it could get because if you get one, two or even three on the ground any others standing will most likly hit and kick there buddy while trying to get at you, that may help as well. As far as MMA, I think BJJ is a MUST.

They are out of ammo and are reaching. Some people honestly think that when it comes to an argument or fight with your significant other winning is most important. It isn't. It's more important to pave the way to peace than to win.

Actually, this is not true. Guys don't forget stuff, and some guys save it up as ammunition for future fights. I happen to think it's mostly Taurus guys who do this, but most people don't believe in astrology. (Still, I bet your girlfriend is a May baby).

Well I think its because it bothers us more. It could be to do with the fact that we are more sensitive than boys so it hurts more. But I actually had the opposite problem. My ex boyfriend went on about fights that happend like a month before all the time and he always complained so I dumped him. He was probably gay lol. :)

Guys DON'T forget it. Lots of guys back up their arguments with old sh*t, i think people do it when they have nothing else on the situation at hand to say or they are just trying to back up their point. Almost like they are writing an essay and giving evidence.

My dear MEN! Never forget..actually this question should have been asked the other way round,,,my bf keeps hitting me with my past mistakes its annoying...GUYS never forget then women always want peace so they ignore the past..

people who bring up old things when they have good intentions are generally trying to use the old stuff as an example. people who bring up old stuff with bad intentions are trying to use old stuff to gain power over the conversation.

We argue to win a battle, they argue to win the war.

guys do that, too.