We've been dating almost a year and he's never bought me flowers.?

as my husband say why would i buy you flowers they wilt and my love will never wilt for you

may just be his excuse lol but i like his explaination :)

Flowers are the severed sexual organs of plants. Kind of gross when you think about it. Flowers are overrated. But I know where you are coming from, you just want to feel appreciated and be able to tell your friends what a sweet and caring guy you have who is considerate and thought to buy you a "fill in the blank" This is a tough subject to bring up because if you do, and the next day he brings you a card that says I love you and I'm thinking of you and a gift that you didn't know you wanted, but you love, it will still seem shallow because there's this thought that he did it because you asked him too. I think you just have to occasionally mention in conversation that a mutual friend of yours got a gift from their special someone and how sweet it is and how she must feel special as a result. You can't do this often, just every now and then. If he doesn't take the hint, and it becomes a deal-breaker for you, you might have to bring it up directly.

Not all guys are the same, and although flowers are nice, they do wilt and it is a waste of money. If someone is going to get you something, it should not matter if it is small or big, bought or made, it is the thought that matters and it kind of sounds like you're being a little bit bratty.

Be thankful for the times that he has bought or thought of you. One question, do you ever do nice things for him, like buy him stuff. A relationship is a two way street, to get, you have to give.

I think you want your boyfriend to act like your friends' boyfriends and its a little unfair to him because as I see it he is not a romantic person, he is simply not that type of person.

The important thing is that he loves you and you love him at the end that's all that really matters. Don't wait for a gift let it come when it does, don't force these type of things on him because, want it or not, he'll see you as a shallow person.

flowers ????? what a waste of hard eared money

if if satisfies you in the sack no need to buy you anything have you bought him anything ??????