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Should I tell my boyfriend to watch porn again?

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I recently found out that my boyfriend of 5 years was addicted to internet porn. I had no idea and I'm really upset that he would lie to my face for our whole relationship! He admitted it all to me yesterday because he decided to stop altogether about two months ago and I've noticed a change. He started working out and our sex life got a lot better, (he used to not be able to get it up/finish reliably) but also now all my friends flirt with him and girls at the cash register in stores and restaurants try to talk to him and it really pisses me off! Also he wants to have sex all the time, like, ALL the time. I work 70 hours a week and he only works about 30 so there's a lot of time when he's home alone and I guess he used to watch porn during this time but now I worry that he might find another girl because I'm always too tired from work to do it with him, and I don't know which is worse. So, should I encourage him to go back to watching porn and get things back to how they were before?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Here's what I think. It wouldn't hurt to encourage him to watch it. He's had a taste of a better life without the addiction of it so if he goes back to it full speed again he might notice he misses the productive sex he was having with you, the better body from working out, and the overall confidence he was achieving. He might find his own balance this way if he knows its okay to watch it again. If he was to cheat on you, he'd just be a bad guy because no one's sex drive is so uncontrollable that he can't show restraint.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Just because he didnt tell you he liked porn doesnt mean he lied to you. Theres no problem with watching porn and you shouldnt take it away. instead, you should give him limits and talk to him. So of course you should "give it back". I doubt it will make a difference. and if he's watching porn, then it's probably a sign saying you're not good in bed and he probably doesnt enjoy having sex with you and he's better off going solo. Moral of the story, don't take porn away from a grown man.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    you shouldn't encourage it yet you also shouldn't forbid it

    maybe ask him to try and limit the porn ? If he were a good guy regardless of whether or not a million girls were before him he'd choose to stay faithful to you

    Personally I'd rather my boyfriend watch porn then go to place where chicks just want his dick

  • M
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    He may still be watching porn and u dont know.

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  • 8 years ago

    No you just have to trust him and make time for sex! Duh

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