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Am I right to want to not be with her?

Socially I'm old school and I would only want to be in a long term relationship with a decent girl. By decent I mean good morals and not dirty or nasty.

So my current girlfriend who I really took seriously as far as to meet her parents and treat her right. We've been together for 2years already. Just yesterday night she was going to film herself touching herself.

I ended up telling her that changed my perspective on her and I thought se was a decent girl and I wouldn't really want be in a long term relationship with her anymore.

The conversation ended there and I haven't talked to her since yesterday night.

I really wanted her to be the girl you know but after this I'm considering breaking up altogether. What are your thoughts on this?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I mean it sounds like the way you put it "i cant see myself long term" is essentially breaking up. I mean are you breaking up specifically because of this? I say this because you want to make sure why she wanted to film herself; was it to please you or because she wanted to fulfill a fantasy? I say give her the benefit of the doubt and at least find out. I mean clearly if you 100% she was an undecent girl you would have broken up with her already. Since you haven't, i say you at least let the relationship see where it is going and let her know you thought she had good morals and not "dirty or nasty" Let her speak her mind. It seems like a one sided break up. Not what a good boyfriend is supposed to do.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Why, man? I mean, I know it's "inappropriate" but if she's doing this kind of stuff, well at least you know she loves you. It doesn't mean she's dirty or nasty if you didn't get that impression TWO YEARS AGO! Just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her making these films if that is how you feel.

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