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Should I break up with her?

Socially I'm old school and I would only want to be in a long term relationship with a decent girl. By decent I mean good morals and not dirty or nasty.

So my current girlfriend who I really took seriously as far as to meet her parents and treat her right. We've been together for 2years already. Just yesterday night she was going to film herself touching herself.

I ended up telling her that changed my perspective on her and I thought se was a decent girl and I wouldn't really want be in a long term relationship with her anymore.

The conversation ended there and I haven't talked to her since yesterday night.

I really wanted her to be the girl you know but after this I'm considering breaking up altogether. What are your thoughts on this?

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  • AK-47
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
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    Depends, if she is filming her self for her own use or for you, then I dont think there is a problem with it. To be really honest, it's easier said than done and I would be really reluctant if my girl asked me if she can do that. I would be a little resistant but I wouldnt mind long as its just for us and as long as it's protected so any third person cant get a hold of it. I would be more reluctant in terms of it getting in the wrong hands but besides that it's not a major thing to break up over.

    However, if you feel like that is not your thing,, or you find that completely unacceptable, then talk to her before breaking up...you have been together for 2 years and it's better to talk it out. If you feel that you couldnt reach a consensus that you both agreed on, then it's up to you...

  • 8 years ago

    Try talking to her instead, I know what this is like. It isn't her fault, society has almost brain washed girl into thinking that all men want is sex and that if she doesn't have sex the the guy then he will lose interest and move on. People make mistakes and everyone can be affected by the pressures of society.

    If it's been over 2 years before she tried something like that then she must want your relationship to last and maybe her friends told that if she didn't act fast you'll lose interest or maybe just watching tv/movies implanted this thought.

    Communication is key.

    good luck.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    So you've been together 2 years and never talked about sex, or morals for that matter? What DO you talk about? As far as you breaking up, she was only trying to please you. Since you seem to be opposed to anything sexual in a relationship you might actually be doing this fantastic girl a favor by calling it quits with her now instead of making her life a living hell.

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