Should I message girl stopped talking too 5 months ago?

If you like her, message her. But do NOT be disrespectful. If you only knew what women had to worry about when talking to guys you might talk more respectfully. "Is he talking to me because he's interested in me or does he just want in my pants?"

I'm guessing the two of you exchanged dirty pictures/messages. That's all fine and good but what always sticks in the back of a girls mind is, 'will this guy lose respect for me if I talk dirty with him?' And of course it's a bull sh*t double standard because girls should be able to have fun like that too without being judged. Guys don't have that problem and its unfair.

I just recently got a text from a guy I also quit talking to several months ago because he was disrespectful toward me. When he contacted me totally out of the blue he started out really nice which I LIKED. But shortly after that he started with the dirty talk and sent me pictures of his d*ck. I told him it was all too weird for me (I knew if I engaged him he would treat me like ****) and of course he flipped out because I wanted no part of it. The only reason he contacted me was for dirty talk, he didn't care how I was doing.

So my point is....if you contact her, make SURE you communicate with her in a way that shows you're interested in her, nothing sexual or she will think thats your only goal. The sexual stuff can come later when both of you have mutual trust.

Just my opinion, but it seems like you would be wasting your time going after this one. There is nothing wrong with saying "hi" especially if you have given some time for her get over whatever regret she is having. I don't know how much you liked her, but you should keep her number if she means a lot to you. Maybe she will message you one day, and if you still have her number, that would tell her that you still care. Just don't keep it after you have moved on.

I wouldn't bother. It sounds like she's just after the thrill of flirting with a stranger, she probably does the same with most guys who contact her. Otherwise she wouldn't still be on that site five months later begging for attention.

message her and see if she will respond back

Give it a try. You have nothing to lose.

Pls, answer mine.

Thanks.