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How can I take it to the next level with him?
I started seeing a guy about a month ago. We have hung out a lot and spent time together. So far so good. However, I wish I could spend more time with him as I don't see him every day. Sometimes only once a week. I would like to take things to the next level as far as us dating exclusive and being bf and gf. I just dont know how to go about doing so. Do I play hard to get? Do I wait and see what he says and does? Do I just say whats on my mind and be honest? I dont want to scare him off lol. Yes, we've been intimate too. I really like this guy. I want things to work. Any good advice would be appreciated. Thank you. If it helps we are both in our late 20's. I just want to show him that I care and that I am loyal and would make a good gf.
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
While playing hard to get and waiting for him to make the move is tempting, I don't suggest doing that. Those mind games only lead to you putting a lot of effort into getting him to say what you want him to say, and if he doesn't say it, you'll get frustrated and it's just not good.
I definitely think you should be honest with him. You just have to be careful how you word it so you don't scare him with a big commitment thing. You can just say something like "I've come to really like you this past month and I'd like for us to be exclusive. If you're not ready that's ok, I'm fine with hanging out the way we've been doing." That way it doesn't seem like too big a deal, and you show that you're willing to accommodate to the pace he wants to take the relationship at.
Good luck!