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I have been dating this guy for 7 months who I really like and care about. We are in our mid 20's. He lives with his mom. Things were going great and his mom initially likes me when I first met her. We were off to a good start. Things changed. This is going to sound bad and I do regret it. I want to add that I am not a drug addict or drug dealer. I was simply experimenting. We ,tried molly. We text each other about it. Apparently, his mother intercepted our text messages. She became upset as any mother would. I understand that. However, I think she went overboard and got carried away. She told him that he cannot see me anymore and that I am not welcome over the house anymore. She actually made him call me and tell me this. He later messaged me and told me he would keep in touch. I am not a drug addict or dealer. Im not saying what I did was right. All I am saying is that I didn't force his hand or hold a gun to his head and make him do it. He's an adult and can make his own choices. I dont think its fair for her to hold me responsible and I think its way out of line for her to have made him call me and say that. Its an invasion of privacy for her to have gone though his phone. I am a really good person and I can promise on God that I will never touch another drug again after this experience. I understand her point of view. She loves her son and wants whats bet for him. She dont want him on drugs or with someone who will bring him down. Im not on drugs and I wont bring him down. I care very much for him and would only help build him up. I dont think we should have to sneak around to see each other. How much of an influence on him can she really have? What do you suggest I do? I really want to change her opinion of me but I fear it is too late. I dont know what to do. Any suggestions? I feel awful. However, I dont think I should be held entirely responsible for this when he was just as guilty as me an also a willing participant.

I met this wonderful man (he's 25 and im 27) 5 few months ago. We had instant chemistry and hit it off well. Yes, we were intimate and continue to be. We get along great and he is respectful and good to me. We have fun. However, he has made a comment before along the lines that he wasn't really looking for a girlfriend but if it happens it happens. That comment upset me. We haven't made anything official yet. Im waiting for him. I really like him and would love nothing more then to be in a serious committed relationship with him. Here's the thing, I font know what to do. I dont know how to handle this situation. I want him to know how I feel and that I care about him and want to be with him. However, I dont want to come across as desperate, needy, or pushy. I dont want to chase him away by being clingy or moving too fast. At the same time I don't want to just sit back and not say anything and have him think he can come and go when he wants and do what he pleases. I dont want him thinking that im on his beck and call and for him to not take me seriously. I am lost. I have no idea what to do. I know that he has had only one serious relationship (2 1/2) years. I know he really loved the girl and she completely screwed him over. Not sure if that has anything to do with him not wanting a relationship or not. I think he still loves her but she has moved on and is engaged to another man now. Should I play hard to get or blow him off every now and then. Should I act like I dont care? Its kind of hard to play hard to get when we've already been intimate and hard to blow him off when I really just want to spend time with him. Should I tell him how I feel or just lay low and play it cool? Please help. Maybe I can help and answer your questions too. Thank you.

Ok... I am in a new relationship... I just started seeing this guy... just over a month... I really like him a lot and I want to show him that I care and I want things to progress nicely... I know he loves cologne and is running low on it... would a cologne be a nice gift to say "I care"? How about a tee shirt? I know he likes the brand Affliction but I am unsure of his size. I need help. I really want to surprise him and show him that I care. Could you suggest a guys cologne... we are in our mid-late 20's if that helps. Thank you.

I started seeing a guy about a month ago. We have hung out a lot and spent time together. So far so good. However, I wish I could spend more time with him as I don't see him every day. Sometimes only once a week. I would like to take things to the next level as far as us dating exclusive and being bf and gf. I just dont know how to go about doing so. Do I play hard to get? Do I wait and see what he says and does? Do I just say whats on my mind and be honest? I dont want to scare him off lol. Yes, we've been intimate too. I really like this guy. I want things to work. Any good advice would be appreciated. Thank you. If it helps we are both in our late 20's. I just want to show him that I care and that I am loyal and would make a good gf.

I met this really hot guy in the beginning of this month. We hit it off and had instant chemistry. He took me out on a few dates. He called/text me everyday. he gave over and met my mom. He brought me over his house and I met his mom and dad. We had sex after a few dates. He kissed me goodnight and text me later again that night. A few days went buy and I heard nothing. I text/Facebook him asking him what the problem was. He told me he broke his phone and that he wasn't blowing me off and he was sorry if I felt that way. He has since then randomly text me here and there but not consistently and hasn't called me. I have physically not seen him since I have slept with him which was Aug. 15th. He did tell me he started a new job and is working a lot of hours which I did verify was true. He also told me his grandpa fell broke his hip and was in the hospital and had surgery which I also verified was true. I told him that if he didn't want to talk to me anymore that all he had to do was tell me. Again, he insisted that wasn't the case. What is really going on with this guy?!?! It appears hes blowing me off yet he insists he isn't and when I confronted him and said h wasn't. He still randomly texts me. Honestly, what should I do? What the hell is going on?!?! You would think if he wasn't interested he wouldn't contact me at all. I need some good advice. He's 25 and I am 27. Please help.

I am 27. He is 25. We just met and started dating 2 weeks ago. We hit it off. He called and text me everyday and showed a lot of interest. Well then that all changed... The last time I heard from him was on Friday. I have sent him a text here and there and no reply. Should I call or text him again or just leave him alone and wait and see if he calls or texts me? It seems like he is trying to blow me off... am I right? I mean I get if he's busy or doesn't want to hang out everyday but whatever but he could at least reply back or if he doesn't want to talk to me anymore at least have the decency to tell me! Should I call him out and tell him how I feel by text or phone call or just leave it be... It sucks because i like him a lot... I need good advice. Thank you.

Like what is and what isn't acceptable?

I met this hot guy 2 weeks ago and we had instant chemistry. He held the door open for me and minded his manners. He was a gentleman. He took me out for drinks and to the movies. He took me to his house and introduced me to his mom and dad. We went on a total of 5 dates. He text and called me everyday and told me I was beautiful and had an awesome personality. We had sex for the first time Thursday and he kissed me goodbye and sent me a text saying goodnight beautiful and that he'd call me tomorrow. Friday went buy and nothing. I text him and he did't have much to say. Just said he was going to bed and would call me tomorrow. Saturday and Sunday both rolled by and still haven't heard from him even though I text him. Whats going on? Is he basically hinting to me that he got what he wanted and now hes done and to leave him alone?!?! I don't know what to do or what to think of this. Its not like I slept with him the first night. Yes, I probably should have waited but come on we are in a date and age where that is rare and we are both adults. Any advice would be appreciated. I really like him and would love to be bf and gf. And no I'm not easy. I only been with a few men my whole life!

I met a handsome 25 year old man approx 2 weeks ago. We hit it off. He told me I was beautiful and he took me out for drinks. We had a good time. Since then he has taken me out on 4 other dates and called/text me every day. He has been honest with me. He does have a lot of lady friends which I'm not too crazy about but he insists they are just friends. He is single. We had sex Thursday. I know I probably should have waited longer but hey at least it wasn't the first night and I made it past the 3 date rule. He kissed me goodbye that night and said he call me later. On Friday he was evasive. Didn't call and only responded by my text by saying he'd call me later. Saturday I knew he was going out to a party but still I text him and nothing. Not even a reply. It is now Sunday I text him again and nothing. So, did he just commit a hit and run on me?!?! What should I do? I don't even know what to think and what to make out of this situation. Please help. Thank you. :)

My hair dresser said she was going to "point cut' my hair... however, it appears she thinned it out instead. She says she didn't thin it but I know she did. I can tell by looking at it and feeling it! It looks awful. It looks frayed and stringy and its so choppy ans thin. :( Help! What can I do to fix my hair? I do not want to lose any more length or fullness.

What if he's not listed on the child's birth certificate? What action would a man have to take in order to get parenting rights? What's the process and how long would it take? Could the mother deny him parental rights? Please help. Thank you.

I love the look of rich dark brown hair with violet/purple tones in it. My hair (underneath) is currently about a level 3. I work for an Aveda salon and I used a 3n/neutral-natural and added b/v (blue/violet). It wasn't as intense as I had hoped. I want to see more tones. How can I formulate this or what can I do to achieve a dark brown rich hair color with intense violet/purple tones?!?! I will select a best answer worth 10 points and I will share your ideas/advice at the Aveda salon I work for and totally give you credit for it. I will also write you a lovely thank you note. Please help. Tried everything and desperate. Also, I do not want to have to pre-lighten my hair.

or if the mother/father switches a swab from another child? can they tell the gender or any of that? its kind of starnge... u almost have to watch n be present when they do it n when they deliver it to the mailbox to make sure nothing fishy goes on. What r ur thoughts on this? I been seeing a lot of these do it yourself home kits lately... wondering what to think of them. i mean what if someone swabs the mother as the father or visa versa... or swabs a different kid as the kid in question?

Doing an at home dna test kit. Its a cheek swab kit you filll out the info and send it to the lab and they send you your results. Can the test indicate whether the participants are male or female? I want to be sure that my partner doesnt somehow switch around the swabs with my other child or themself. What do you think?

With a cheek swab paternity DNA test can it tell if you are male or female?

is it possible to be in love with two people at once? is it possible to have sex with someone else while in a relationship and still love that person ur in a relationship with?

im 27 and hes 34. we been together 6 years. I love him. him cheated on me two years ago. no. im not ok with it. he told me he hasn't done it since an that was the only time he did it. but isn't once a cheater always a cheater? I mean people change and people make mistakes too... I just don't know what to think or do about this. he tells me he loves me but how can u do that if u love someone? we had a falling out when then happened and he says he didn't cheat because we weren't together but I think hes just trying to make an excuse and justify it. but I feel theres no excuse or justification for that. i admit in the beginning of our relationship i wasn't the best girlfriend and i did some stupid things that weren't right but that was the beginning... maybe 1-2 years in certaintly not 4+ years in. i need all the advice i can get. thanks. oh and he told me himself. i had no idea. first he he told me he did it and then he didn't he said it to make me mad and jealous but now hes back saying thast he did... wtf?!?! did he or didn't he? i don't see why someone woul say something like that if it weren't true! what do u think? maybe its stupid that its been 2 years and im still carrying on about this but he said about a year ago it wasn't true and all of a sudden now after we got into an argument hes saying its true... i know when u get mad u say n do things u don't mean a lot... but also when u get mad or drink ur true feelings and the truth has a way of coming out. please help.

Hair stylists go to school for it... yet they never seem to get it right. I cant tell u how many times my color n cuts been messed up!!!! I describe in detail what i want. i show them pictures. they nod and say they got it... obvioisly not!!!! Dont b a stylist if u cant do hair!!!!

I am a 26 year old female. I have no debt. I have a nice new car. I have a decent full time job. I have money to go shopping. My bills are paid. I have a 34 year old brother who has no job or money. He doesn't even attempt to find a job. He is very lazy and looks for free handouts. He always has an excuse. He has a pity party. He lost his job a few years ago. He has a vehicle but the tabs on it expired so it sits at the house. His license expired so I had to give him money to renew it. He never has money but somehow always manages to have a beer and a pack of cigarettes. He sold everything our late father owned and has nothing to show for it. He often demands to use my car and for me to give him money. He often makes rude remarks when I go out shopping or when I have money. He tells me "It must be nice to have money!" I tell him "It is nice, and I have it because I work hard for it!" My mother babies him and asks me to help him. Why help someone who isn't willing to help themselves?!?! I was in a hard place in my life before but I got back on top and no one helped me but myself!!!! He is so jealous and hateful and spiteful towards me because I am successful and he isn't. I try to tell him success is something you have to work for and he too could have it if he applied himself. He doesn't listen. I am so sick and tired of coming home everyday from work and listening to him cry baby and demand my vehicle and my money!!!! I am so sick and tired of my mother babying and enabling him. She doesn't seem to understand that she's doing more damage than good. Yes, I have a child who lives there too. Yes, I do help out around the house too unlike my brother. What should I do about this? Is this a common or uncommon thing? Is it a mental condition? I seriously think he's starting to lose it if you ask me.

I am a 26 year old white female. I take good care of myself. i am very girly n trendy n clean. I been noticing hairs on my chin n my jawline. its so gross! wtf!?!? I mean its not a full beard but its for sure noticeable! what can i do about it n whys it happening to me??!? I waxed n i broke out n i plucked n they still came back. its driving me crazy. im not on any new meds or diet. im not prego. my kids 7. I do tan so maybe that has something to do with it. i just started taking birth control pills sunday. i never had this problem till about a year ago n its getting worse!!! Help!!!!