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Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me?

I am 27. He is 25. We just met and started dating 2 weeks ago. We hit it off. He called and text me everyday and showed a lot of interest. Well then that all changed... The last time I heard from him was on Friday. I have sent him a text here and there and no reply. Should I call or text him again or just leave him alone and wait and see if he calls or texts me? It seems like he is trying to blow me off... am I right? I mean I get if he's busy or doesn't want to hang out everyday but whatever but he could at least reply back or if he doesn't want to talk to me anymore at least have the decency to tell me! Should I call him out and tell him how I feel by text or phone call or just leave it be... It sucks because i like him a lot... I need good advice. Thank you.

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  • Girlx
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Friday is nearly a whole week ago. He is obviously very rude and not being a true boyfriend by not texting you back. There is never such thing as "Too busy to answer a text", sending a text takes less than one minute out of the day, it's not an excuse. And it's been a whole week! Your gut instincts are most likely accurate; I'd call him up on it and tell him that you really don't think it's acceptable that he isn't bothering to message you when you're in a relationship. Then move on, because not all guys are going to leave you hanging like that. Hope this helped

  • 8 years ago

    If it has been a whole week without him responding to you at all, I think it is safe to say he is no longer interested. I wouldn't text him anymore or call him out on anything, because that will make you look desperate. At this point, just try and move on. Delete his number, don't call or text, etc... if he really likes you he'll come back.

  • 8 years ago

    This is simple really. Its understandable to be woried but alot of the time there is no reaon to be. Hes most likely been to busy. if hes been busy he wont text you back even after hes got time probably because hes to tired. if he seems interested he probably is. just give him time let him text or call you ad everything will be alright. but dont tell him it bothers you because you can make him feel like your accusing him of something or your very clongy which alot of guys hate to begin with

  • 8 years ago

    It does suck, but he is blowing you off so the best thing you can do is blow him off right back, and don't answer when he finally does decide to reply two weeks later.

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  • 8 years ago

    Definitely leave him alone. Hard, very hard, I know!

    But patience here, good things come from patience. Trust me.

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