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Lv 4

How to get a Girlfriend? Should I be trying to find a girl?

Girls have called me smart, nice, caring, responsible, cute and *marriage material*. But then I feel like every time i try to go after a girl, I always get the same excuse. They will say, I like you as a friend.

I'm getting close to my fourth rejection. and I'm seriously considering celibacy. The act of never having sex and never marrying. I may even encompass that to a relationship, because I feel like crap, like no one who appears to care, really care.

I honestly feel i don't deserve to be with anyone anymore.

So my question is what do i have to do to turn this around?

I have isolated some of my problems (and I'm doing my best to fix them all)

Update:

I don't think I'm really deserving of what some of my friends have called me. But they have called me nice and I am just putting that out there.

Yes i feel like a douche, because like most people, we don't give a crap about this earth.

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  • 8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    don't be a douche.

    be sexy.

    we people are hormones driven.

    girls love the guys who can give them some c*ck action, and those guys often happen to be douchebags.

    learn how to arouse a woman from the 1st conversation = problem solved.

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    listen to chicks not your friends

    my friends call me drop dead gorgeous sexy f*ck when I'm down

    it doesn't mean that I actually am

    even if u don't give a crap about this earth, take care of your gf

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    oh yeah and those nice guys ooomgf I'm so nice I bought u beer

    NOW GO MAKE ME A SANDWICH U B*TCH!

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    2 Dan:

    wrong.

    u need to maintain the attraction too.

    Source(s): tired of complaints "omfg i'm so nice noboby wants me" we love guys who are good in bed we love nice guys who are good in bed even more
  • 8 years ago

    Well they are telling you everything a perfect good girl that isnt a whore would want, just take it easy if you can't find anyone then its time to stop the search and aim things like work out video games books friends family fun and other thing you might like to do! if you cant go to love let the love come to you, and sometimes love like's to hide and way for the moment that you will not even think about anyways, stay sharp stay clean and keep your mind busy dont chase love let love chase you!

  • 8 years ago

    Well I think first you should be the girls friend for awhile. Take it slow dont speed up. They want to get to know you better before they go into anything serious. Maybe they arent the right person and you're just waiting for the right girl. Just wait and dont go so hard on yourself

  • Prim
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    be polite courteous

    talk a lot

    show interest

    be more outgoing

    GO OUTSIDE (obviouse one)

    do mine please

    http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap...

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