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Ok my ex girlfriend is 7 months pregnant and we have been broke up going on 4 months now. I have been at all the baby appointments and have tried to get back with her and stuff. And she said ahe has even reconsidered us getting back together at times and said she didn't think when she broke up with me that it would be for good. We had no problems before the pregnancy all our problems came up after she got pregnant. During a month or two during this pregnancy things were good between us and we got along great and talked alot but for past two weeks or so the talking has gone away again like it did in the beginning and the fighting has came back. She said at our last fight she wanted an happy family and when I meet up with her last I told her i'm sorry for alot of things, and that I was wrong in alot of ways during this time. I told her I wanted to work toward being a happy family and connecting again and when I asked her what she had to say about it she said she didn't have anything to say right now that she will go over what I said because she made me text it to her after we talked in person. But she just won't talk to me like she use to and she has hung with other guys but just said that they are just friends and I have no reason to not believe her on that. At times she shows signs of caring, but most of the time its like she doesn't even want me part of her life. I love this girl so much and just lost on what I should do. I want to wait it out but im scared that there is nothing to wait on. Do you guys think that she is just going through the stages of each trimester as most of our problems have came in the very beginning and now close to the end. What are your guys take she has also said that we both need space for now to be us because she said that this is the last three months that it just gets to be her. I need some good advice here guys.
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- rolranxLv 58 years agoFavorite Answer
forcing a relationship because of the child seems nobel, but often ends up with both sides unhappy which can be worst for the child as well. My advice is to step away from a relationship for now. Focus on being good friends and parents to the child, which does *not* require you to be in a romantic relathioshp. figure out how to work together for the best interest of the child and be supportive to her.
If, after you both figure out how to be good parents and get in a comfortable and stable relationship as parents, but not romantic, you still have romantic feelings you can try to move on them then. for now it's too much to do at once. Focus on being good parents and figure out relationship stuff once the stress of pregnancy and being new parents is taken care of. and whatever you do don't force a relationship you don't both want for the sake of the child. it's better to have two parents that are happily separated but both working towards the best interest of the child then two married parents that are always fighting and angry.