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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingTeen & Preteen · 8 years ago

Everythings falling apart..?

So, its not my second week in College, and Im having the worst time.. I always thought college would be amazing, but now im thinking otherwise and really want to go home..

The first week felt great. It seemed like my roommates liked me, and I was seeing my boyfriend all the time and it was right. But, i started to realize i was spending all my time with my boyfriend and no time with my roommates, so i tried to change that.. And ever since ive been realizing how much i missed out on in that first little week by not being in my dorm.. I feel so left out of everything. And its stressing me out hard..

My boyfriend isnt even trying to be supportive and keeps telling his roommates everything i do.. So now i feel like they all hate me. Ill admit when im stressed i freakout and worry, but i feel like everything between my boyfriend and i is now falling apart.. I think hes going to leave me soon.. and instead of trying to fix it, im freaking out even more and getting into more fights with him. :/

What can i do ? :(

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  • 8 years ago

    It's only your second week. Your "freakouts" could probably be attributed to anxiety, which many students experience during the first month of college. As for your boyfriend....if he's contributing to your worrying and freakouts, that's really unhealthy for your personal well-being. Maybe you all should take a break or something. Stay focused on furthering your education.

  • 8 years ago

    Your worrying wayyy to much. And You need to remember whats more important and why your in college. Hopefully the answer to that is you plan to further your education.

  • 8 years ago

    sigh.......YOU NEED TO RELAX!!!!!!!! Stop trying to hard when you're stressed out!

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