In serious need of advice.. Help please ?

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Hey guys :) 

I have a problem thats been eating at me lately and i could really use some advice. Anyway, three days ago my boyfriend and i had a fight. (We had been fighting on and off all week) and one of our old friends inboxed him, they started talking and he told her that hes going insane. And that im extremely manipulative and controlling, which i dont even know how to take :/ But, what got me even more, was when she told him that she could have told him from the start that i was bad news and apparently a psycho. Because apparently I hated the fact that they were friends. Which kills me.. I never had a problem with them being friends, hell she was my best friend in grade 9 and 10 and we would all hang out together before she moved away. Plus, ive been trying to talk to her since she moved and she hardly answers me.. Ive inboxed her multiple times asking to hangout, and she always makes plans and then bails on me. sometimes without even telling me she cant come. so im left waiting.. 

I dont know what to do about this.. I want to tell her off badly but im not sure if its the right thing to do. :/ Im so lost because to people i trusted said **** like that behind my back.

Buzzard · Accepted Answer

Strife within a couple is one thing, but your friend isn't really your friend to talk to your boyfriend like that. I think she's trying to steal him from you. It's also possible that your boyfriend's reaction has been related falsely. How do you know what was said? Can you trust the source?

Don't fall into the trap of getting angry. I think you are being baited. Just be cool, and talk with your boyfriend about what was said. You can put the old "friend" on ice, I mean, don't even talk to her for a as long as it takes to get stability. She's bad news.

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