My Girlfriend and Bestfriend are now friends. Girls, Help me :(?

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Hello there, so basically my girlfriend and bestfriend became friends now. We 3 have the same courses and rooms in college, not intended but was only a coincidence my bestfriend is with us. so yeah, everyday they have things to talk about. while I sit there quietly not showing I'm jealous for her sake. This happens almost every subject for the whole day. but earlier in P.E. they played poke. Which I didnt like so much. But my girlfriend knows me so much that she can tell when I'm jealous and whenever I throw tantrums. But I have tried to change my mindset to not be jealous because of there friendship. thing is I have this intimidating stare and I'm kinda gave them this stare accidentally. I didn't mean to look at them so fiercely. so yeah.. My girlfriend just argued with me about that. I didn't mean to give them what I gave. I've tried almost everything I can do to not be jealous of them but I still do. I've tried not to look serious when ever I'm around them but I still fail. so..Girls, help me on this one.. How can I stop being Jealous of there friendship? (She treats him like how she treats me when ever where good) I mean.. I'm afraid of losing her to him, and knowing myself I can hold a grudge for a long time.. I still have one with a guy who tried to force himself to her. (Her Friend) help me, please. :(

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you lose her, it's more likely going to be because of your jealousy than because of the other guy. There's a huge difference between being mad at a person who tried to force himself on your girlfriend and being mad at someone who can relate to her better than you can. Find something to do with your girlfriend, a hobby or a shared interest, that you can talk about. That way you can contribute to the conversation instead of feeling left out. If you feel your jealousy spiking, take a deep breath and walk away for a bit. Doesn't have to be long, get a sip of water or go cool down in the bathroom. Clear your head, come back, and try again. And when you're alone with her, talk about how you're feeling. Communication is vital to preserving a relationship. You do need to respect her space and put your trust in her, but at the same time if you keep your feelings bottled up jealousy could sour and turn into resentment.

Master Of Dragons · Answer

Calm down. It's normal to be jealous in relationships.

Bavana · Answer

if u like ur girlfriend more than ur bestfriend,be more close to her than ur best friend.

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