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Gerald
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Gerald asked in HealthWomen's Health · 8 years ago

Why do women act so coy about sex?

So why are women not a little more pro active when it comes to sex? Like when during foreplay why do you not want to massage the penis as your man massages your breast and then your vagina? If you were to massage the penis until orgasm do you not realize that he is going to want to have sex still? So after he orgasms, he massages you for 20 minutes or so, until he recovers, and by then you should be ready for penetration. Also this will allow him to last longer because he has already disposed of the first load. But women are scared to fondle the penis usually. Why?

(this is usually for dating couples and younger women)

Update:

Irene, you could be no further from the truth. It sounds as if you have the lack of experience you refer to because I have many years of experience. Since you are 1 woman that may treat her man right how does that make you an expert on other women's actions in the bedroom? Since I have been with

s e v e r a l women I do stand by my question. Thanks

Update 2:

Sorry crazyowl. I am also over 50 and I get it when I want it. About 3 times a week.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Weird my boyfriend always ask me why I never fully play with his penis! He is the first boy I touched like that but he always tells me to jack him off and I'm like no...It's akward in a way...So I just slightly touch it! I guess some girls are just like that..

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Most men once they have come need longer than the 20 minutes or so you suggest and you are kidding yourself if you think you are any different Your whole question shouts as to inexperience with a partner. Foreplay is give and take between the couple and they should decide together on what works best for them, not have someone tell the other person what they should be doing. Yes by the way I am over 50 and still love sex and probably get it more than you.

    Source(s): EXPERIENCE/ Married 30+
  • 8 years ago

    It doesn't really sound like you have much if any experience with women perhaps you mean to ask about young girls? and as for any woman who does not give her man a hand job first it's most likely because once men get to a certain age their refractory period is much longer than a teenagers and once they ejaculate they can not orgasm again for hours or even a full day

    Most "women" in relationships are not shy or coy about sex with their man and have no fear of "fondling" a penis.

    Yes, I have only been enjoying the hell out of my sex life for 33 years, it must be the lack of experience on my part, but like you said you did not mean to get answers from real women, you are looking for answers from shy young girls "this is usually for dating couples and younger women"

    and if you are 50 years old I do not believe you can ejaculate again 20 minutes after a first ejaculation unless you are from some other planet

    what you have said here screams teenager "Also this will allow him to last longer because he has already disposed of the first load" since it is teens who tend to need to masturbate before sex so as not to have premature ejaculation.

    considering you answered a 16 year old girls question and told her on the third date she is obligated to let her date feel her up I truly doubt you are 50 years old.

  • Amber
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Most guys need a lot longer than 20 minutes to recover after orgasm. The least I've ever seen was an hour and this guy was a rarity as well as an animal. I'm not above giving a guy "an assist" with my hands but it's usually because he's already done me a couple of times and it's his turn, besides timing with a condom on isn't the easiest.

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  • una
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Can you provide more details?

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