Gerald

So why are women not a little more pro active when it comes to sex? Like when during foreplay why do you not want to massage the penis as your man massages your breast and then your vagina? If you were to massage the penis until orgasm do you not realize that he is going to want to have sex still? So after he orgasms, he massages you for 20 minutes or so, until he recovers, and by then you should be ready for penetration. Also this will allow him to last longer because he has already disposed of the first load. But women are scared to fondle the penis usually. Why?

(this is usually for dating couples and younger women)

It comes in little vials. When I open the box and remove it you can see a substance on the bottom of the inside of the vial. I shake the vial and it seems to dissolve. However in the directions it says, and I have been told by my doctor, to not shake it. To roll it between my palms 10 times. But this does not seem to dissolve the stuff. Do they say to not shake it because of bubbles forming? Is there any problem created by shaking? Thanks in advance for any solutions.