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Has anyone else been in this situation ?
I have been going crazy these past three weeks.. Its my first month in college, and I was one of those girls everyone warned not to set her plans off of her boyfriend, but i did.. And im at this school because of it. :/ Im miserable here. And day by day its just getting worse. It feels like im losing him, he isnt the same guy he was at home. Now he could care less if he saw me.. and it hurts. Its driving me crazy.. he tells people things about me, like im controlling manipulative, ect. But after i talked to my mom about it she made me realize he is the one manipulating me. He always says things that make me feel bad, or makes me feel like ****. Then if i get upset or freakout he threatens to leave me.. Last week i got told to change back to the old me or he is going to leave..
All this is seriously getting to me.. :/ I feel so alone up here, and he is breaking my heart. What do i do ?
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Your boyfriend sounds like an *******. You really should end the relationship because it clearly isn't healthy or making either you happy. Time to call it quits, so you can both move on with your life and be happy, and don't be afraid to be single. Being single will do you some good as you realise your type and you can just enjoy being in your own company. Also boyfriends come and go, so don't think you'll be forever alone or you won't find somebody else, because you will, there is somebody out there for everybody and there's plenty of more fish in the sea.
When people go to college they change. I came out of my shell and was super popular, but other people change in a bad way because you are finally meeting new people, you're studying a subject you like and you are away from home. My advice to you would be for future references is to listen to what people are telling you because they are right, don't put off your plans for anybody because a supportive person would support your dreams, follow your dreams and listen to what your heart says and you'll never go wrong.
Good luck xoxo