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Should I text boyfriend or wait.?

We been together for over two years and planning marriage etc :)

However he always chooses his friends or random people over me so that they all like him.

especially when he was away for 7months...girls etc....

yesterday he went to uni as a mature student. And after promising it'll be fine and he'll call and text..I had two texts. Idk even what his room is like...then he said he's going out at 6pm and nothing since. Bit pathetic?

Should I text, or call him now and say it's all starting again... (like the 7months he was away)

Or leave it.

I love him and want to talk but dont want to argue or look like im great.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Call him when you are sure that he is home. Trust your boyfriend, he loves you and you love him. Tell him that you trust him and that you love him. support him whenever you can. Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    No don't text him. Leave him to come to you - if you appear too 'needy' or available, as much as he probably does love you, he'll get bored. Don't contact him for at least 2 weeks. If he doesn't contact you, then leave it for another week then tell him how it's making you feel and ask him straight out what he wants from this relationship - because it's not feeling like one.

    If he does, then wait a few days to reply. Make him appreciate you again! Men sometimes forget that what they have is amazing, and only realise after they don't how much they miss it. When he does contact you, don't send any long messages/go into deep conversation straight away. Act casual and see what he says - here's hoping that he realises he can't live without you and he's been a lousy boyfriend. But most men hate opening up so just be casual with him and be patient.

    Source(s): Me
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It dosent really seem like your bf is really that into I'm sorry to say I get that people are always busy doing things like work,uni ect however it takes less than 2 miniutes to wright texts and escpilaly if he's your bf he should be keeping intouch everyday or at least every other day just to see how u are something just dosent seen right here :/.i would text him see if he replies :)

  • well i could go into a big long speech about whats wrong and whats probably going on but i wont. i will simply tell you this if he doesnt go out of his way to be with you or is miserable when hes not with you then hes not worth chasing you will know when a guy loves you he will hate to be away form you. and you will know it . he will also tell you how much he loves you and you will feel it. .

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  • 8 years ago

    Ask him where he is going. He should at least be open and honest with you.

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