KateLayla

Since early age I record my parents being abusive towards me, and making me feel like im the bad one. This encouraged my siblings to grow thinking this too....

in my life I done some bad things, but they dont compare to my little brother smoking weed, coming home drunk etc other illegal business at 14-15yrs. But they don't seem to care.

I worked since 13y/o, and went to private school. It went great and I had great grades (never enough for them). Until 6th form..I went down the hill and even though I was doing well, I didnt do great in exams. I was extremely upset but quickly turned it around and started college and am doing a 2yrs in 1yr. They dont do exams just physical and wtitten assignments. I keep getting 100% in all (it all counts towards final grade).

After telling me no University will eve r want me I received all my offers! And am going to study a masters degree :) (4yrs)

I still here im stupid and will fail :( It's heart breaking. tips. Im 18. Moving with bf in May

I dont want to sound needy, but new years eve is our 4th year since we met. He knew we have nothing to do yet planned nothing. So we'll be at mine doing nothing.

I dont want to do anything expensive but smth would be nice... especially how we go dinner Universities and dont see each other often and we dont go on dates because of it. We also dont do much without me planning now.

tips?

I'll try to be quick...

6months ago he went to USA for 6months. He wasn't a gd boyfriend then..I got spoken to once a week. He was great friends with many girls. Went on trips with them and didnt talk to me then at all for weeks..no contact. She kissed him and then he kept being her great friend. He ofc told me after I shouted at him over the phone 4months after it happened. He still saw her..and when he got back I read messaged of her flirting with him and asking to stay over. He agreed but apparently cancelled. The photos show she liked him...when he got back 6months ago i messaged her n she was horrible. Told me he promised her being together amd had sex. But he denayed it.. cried and apologised. He still gets VERY upset over it and says he's stupid n regrets all but he never cheated on me.

I love him n I can see he adores me to as he bought engagement ring. But I cry and cant move on :'( :'(

My boyfriend went away for 6months..he met loads of girls...we had some troubles.

after him deleting everyone of fb and not talking to them for over 5months he received a letter from one of the girls with a cd music mix "for the car journeys" with card of photos of him and other people etc.

I hate it..why would she do this after 5months?

What should I do?..

We bee together for 2yr.

I'll try to be quick..

He's known for choosing his friends over me. Today he's staying at his parents house as it was his mum's birthday and I had to stay at home as I'm ill.

anyway, he said he'll go see his friend just to give him his xmas card and say hi. He's taking his dad's new 4x4 truck which he never drove before..I wasnt happy about it so I called him and asked if he's taking it and said yes. I said I wouldnt want him to as im worried as it's night time and he drives through small roads. He said he'll be fine so I asked him to be back at 10 (I meant 9 but read the clock wrong) but then did say about 5times. "In 45min" and he repeated and said he promises he will. Then when he got there (9:15) he said he's going out with the guys...aftr I reminded him he promised he said he'll drive carefully. I told him he broke a promise and im just turning my phone off. He kept textinh sorry. ...im annoyed as he never keeps promises and I worry like hell!!!!!! And I'm 3months pregnant.

Im going to visit my botfriend at his uni on saturday, but my plans changed and I just bought a ticket for thursday instead!

I really want to tell him as im very excited, but I do think it would be a good surprise? But im worried he'll have something planned for then instead lol

should I just tell him? I cant keep it a secret haha

We been together for 2years :) good happy relationship, and planning on moving in, in 8months :D

at first when i met her, she was lovely, and we got along perfectly! until about 4months ago..we all went away to scotland for 3weeks to their family holiday house :) us and my bf's brother and his gf. me and his gf dont get along at all, she hates me and is jealous as they only been together for 10months. then his mum treated me worse...i was always second than that girl. she had better room, front car seat and when i was ill i got told to man up.

then when we got back everytime i go there for dinner, his mum and dad insist he goes away to another country to work for a year or so, ofc i couldnt go with him as im finishin Uni here. they say it in front of me, and even when my bf says he'll get job close here as we're moving in, they ignore it and continue.

i dont like going round there again..and my bf promised to talk to them however he's back to being mummy's boy and calling and texting her.

she contacts him 24/7 and needs to know what he's doing and when (even when we're together) , and yes he lives away from home atm for Uni :)

what should i do? i really can't take it..and bf says he'll talk, but mummy's little boy isnt going to say anything..

my bf says he's always 100% behind him and knows his mum is being a ***** atm.

help?

I am.visiting my boyfriend at his uni :) we see each other usually every two weeks.

I been staying here for 5days now as its my week off work :) I travel by bus 3hours.

Im supposed to be going home today but I feel terrible! Couldnt sleep and keep crying about leaving even though he's coming back on saturday fir the weekend.

I can get a new ticket and leave on saturday instead.

Idk if I shouldnt or if im just being stupid.. mt.boyfriend says he would love for me to stay but its my choice.

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sorry for stupid question but need opinions

We had a great cute relationship, he would make me feel like a princess. i mean i never felt happier :) of course we had arguments, but which normal couple doesn't?! :)

we got through hard times..like him being away for 7months and not seeing each other at all. And him being away now for work and seeing each other every 2 or 3weeks.

however he always did stupid things..like get close to girls that they would make a move on him, he wouldn't do anything but even letting them 'make the move' it bad!

now he's away working..and im back on my 2nd place :) yes i get presents and takes me out when we see each other but hey you can't buy my feelings!

when he's away he's with friends (he shares a flat) all the time..and doesn't have time for me. im keeping this relationship together. i call. i arrange skype talks. i text first. if i don't do it i'll get nothing!

when he's with friends he wont talk..i wont get a text i wont get anything. he'll be out and just ignore my texts.

but when he needs me i HAVE to be there for him. and as i love him loads, i am. and i know he loves me to pieces as he does say he's sorry and he's worried one day i'll walk away.

we're planning marriage..looked at rings. family loves us. but i can't be in something like this. it's always ''im sorry honey. i'll do better. i hate myself now'' when he says it i say it with him as i know what he will say.

any tips? we're supposed to move in together in 9 months.

He's great, don't get me wrong. i love him and i know he loves me too. he's just terrible with thinking what he does, or choosing friends over me. (we live now 5h away as he moved because of work, but we're moving together in 8months)

we argued a lot..but after spending 2days together we're back to normal. it was all about how he chooses his friends over me, and after a girl kissing him 6months ago and him still being (until 4months ago) bestfriends with her while she lied to me that he said he loved her etc....

anyway, it's my 21st today..he promised (as always) to call at midnight, he didnt. just texted happy birthday. then nothing..today we barely spoke..i was really hoping to talk to him most of the day on skype as he has all day free and so do i.

he was out with friends and still is. i just told him im upset and he tried calling but i dont feel like talking only when i tell him what to do.

i'm annoyed and fed up..i love him but im having enough of promises and not keeping them. yes he loves me with all his heart, but still.

it's my birthday..i should be having fun not getting upset.

We had a nice relationship :) we been through hard time when he was away (soldier) for 6months and we were fine, now he's living away finishing his master degree, and then next year we're moving in together :) and planning marriage in about 3years.

However since he moved away 1week ago we been arguing everyday...i get annoyed how when he's with friends he will NOT reply to my texts, or text at all. he will be out every night, and then have a go at me if i want him to talk to me one night on skype. he will go off with friends and not text or reply. and of course he's busy at lectures so that takes up a lot of time, so when he's free i would love to talk a bit, but yeah.

when we talked about it he said he feels like i dont want him going out, but i told him its not true i just feel he chooses his friends over me.

im the person that cant really go day or 2 without texting or talking but i feel like he could easily.

i text him cute texts, and get short reply back.

his excuse is 'ok it just happened.' 'oh i was sucked into it'

blah blah.

i cant talk to him without arguing..so i dont know what to do.

any tips?

i'm 20 and he's 22. i'm seeing him in 3days time for the weekend.

We been together for over two years and planning marriage etc :)

However he always chooses his friends or random people over me so that they all like him.

especially when he was away for 7months...girls etc....

yesterday he went to uni as a mature student. And after promising it'll be fine and he'll call and text..I had two texts. Idk even what his room is like...then he said he's going out at 6pm and nothing since. Bit pathetic?

Should I text, or call him now and say it's all starting again... (like the 7months he was away)

Or leave it.

I love him and want to talk but dont want to argue or look like im great.

I'll try to be quick!

Together for over 2years, and planning to get engaged next year :)

We been through a lot..however he always chooses his friends over me.

while he was away for work in USA for 6months he chose his friends barerly talking to me etc. He agrees that he was stupid and really regrets it.

he moved away for uni today..he promised we will talk etc etc. But as soon as he got to welcome day he didnt even reply to my important texts but texted his friends as they said.

also he just said he's out tonight and that's all. Im worried we're going back to beginning. .

tips?

Amd we're the couple that likes talking to.each other so im.not being clingy. Thank you x

we're 20 & 21.

my bf got back from working abroad 2months ago, he was away for 6 months. he's the type that would never cheat, and wants to marry me soon :) however i knew something was happening then between him and a girl. after asking him to tell me the truth (when he was still away) he said she kissed him 3months before when she was drunk and he was planning on telling me when he was back. i got very upset as it hurt..and he was still hanging out with her and doing things together (running, bungee jumping etc). then after he got back and she emailed him saying stuff like if he's going to ignore her she'll tell me everything. i added her blah blah she told me that they never kissed drunk, and it was just easy to say to me. and that i shouldnt trust him anymore...he said its not true and got very upset and annoyed at her. he emailed her but she kept sticking to her story, then when i looked at their emailed he said things like 'i told u we couldnt talk when im back as she would see our emails blah blah blah blah' and she said like 'domtn treat me like some hoe u can have sex with and then forget about' blah blah. i got annoyed nad questioned it, he said he only said it as he thought she would leave us alone then. however emailes after that he deleted before i saw them.he promised on everyone life nothing happened. since then (2months) shes blocked from our fb, and emails and we have no contact with her. however i keep thinking that i trust him but i think something did happen. i want to add her on fb and ask..or am i being stupid?

together for over 2years, he's planning on proposing soon :)

I'll try to be quick..

we been talking about engagement a lot! we love each other a lot and know we'll be together :) we plan our wedding too :)

he has been asking me what ring i like, and said i don't have to.wait much longer. and also he'll ask my dad first :)

i dont get along with my parents..

he asked me today what my dad is doing on Friday and when i.said he's going football he said he'll go with him and i can stay at home catch up on sleep. then told me that we're going out on Saturday.

when i.asked him where to he said to this cute little Chinese restaurant.

btw always told him how i.want a cute small engagement but he always said how he likes it cute and big and planned.

what do you think?!

i went to Dr yesterday as i felt quite ill for a while. he said it's nothing.

since then i got a lot worse!!

extremely painful throat, on and off temperature, can't swallow (even my own spit i bring up), no liquids in over 12h, dizzy, crying, can't cope anymore, didn't sleep the whole night, throat is getting tighter each minute.

a&e time or gp tomorrow? barring in mind, it's practically impossible to make appointment with my gp.

in 2months i had tonsilitos twice.

for last two weeks i suffered from bad throat. yesterday after feeling very ill i went to the gp, i couldn't see me usual gp and saw another who said it's a nose infection and gave me anti inflammatory.

hours later i got terribly worse. i couldn't find the energy to even talk.

this night i slept for about 30min. i am crying in pain as my throat is killing i can't even talk i seem to have temperature. and feel like dying. (never had this before)

im chewing stremsils every hour (no help)

my throat doesn't look terrible just very red but a bit swollen.

what should i do? i really can't cope and even find it hard to type this :'(

gp again? or a&e (worried about being called stupid)

Hi, I'll try to make it quick.

we been together for 2years, planning engagement soon:)

however after a perfect relationship i recently found out about few things..

1. in first 8months of our relationship he stayed over at many girls houses. just on sofa after party but i was never told.

2. spoke to his ex a lot about meeting up (as friends)

3. had pictures of picking up and hugging girls.

4. went on a 7day holiday with just girls without really telling me it's just girls.

5. and few other things.

he's not a player, but a cute guy who has many friends no matter about their gender. he never would cheat etc etc, so i know he didn't.

also after going away for work 7months ago (for 5months) he was very friendly with a girl..she kissed him. and he kept being friends with her. let her stay at his house there etc. hanged out. and went on a round the country in a van for 3weeks trip with just girls....

i love him and he changed so much. he loves me loads. he done nothing since and always keeps apologizing about it.

but i can't stop thinking about what happend last year :( :(

last week during a kickboxing i kicked and after had a small bruise on my lower shin. it hurt but i could walk normally.

then days on it kept getting more bruised and spreading up and down my leg.

now a week on my ankle is swollen and bruised till the bottom side of my foot. and near my toes and a lot more on my shin. on the shin it's a hard very painful lump. very bruised etc.

it keep getting more bruised but i can walk pretty much normally.

what could it be? sprained?

yesterday my tonsil swelled up but only the right one. the doctor gave me a strong dose of penicilin to work on it.

this morning i woke up with both my tonsils swollen and a white dot on the other one, but just a red throat.

is this tonsilitis? my.temperature is normal and apart from the pain, i feel fine.

im very worried as in 2days i have my.fiances birthday! i bought us tickets to a show and we have to travel etc. then family bbq in 3days etc ;(

and today i have a Uni trip for the whole day walking around. should i go?

thank you xxx