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After 2 years, I don't feel loved and cared for anymore by my boyfriend?(need help)?

We had a great cute relationship, he would make me feel like a princess. i mean i never felt happier :) of course we had arguments, but which normal couple doesn't?! :)

we got through hard times..like him being away for 7months and not seeing each other at all. And him being away now for work and seeing each other every 2 or 3weeks.

however he always did stupid things..like get close to girls that they would make a move on him, he wouldn't do anything but even letting them 'make the move' it bad!

now he's away working..and im back on my 2nd place :) yes i get presents and takes me out when we see each other but hey you can't buy my feelings!

when he's away he's with friends (he shares a flat) all the time..and doesn't have time for me. im keeping this relationship together. i call. i arrange skype talks. i text first. if i don't do it i'll get nothing!

when he's with friends he wont talk..i wont get a text i wont get anything. he'll be out and just ignore my texts.

but when he needs me i HAVE to be there for him. and as i love him loads, i am. and i know he loves me to pieces as he does say he's sorry and he's worried one day i'll walk away.

we're planning marriage..looked at rings. family loves us. but i can't be in something like this. it's always ''im sorry honey. i'll do better. i hate myself now'' when he says it i say it with him as i know what he will say.

any tips? we're supposed to move in together in 9 months.

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  • 8 years ago
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    I kinda know what you're going thru. My boyfriend and I been together almost 2yrs and this is our second time living together. And were 19 and have a 6mth baby girl. Before moving in he used to go out a lot with his friends, and there was school and work so its hard to keep going strong. But every onr has to grow up and settle down eventually. If he's not into putting his share of effort into your relationship then its not going to work out well. You need to address your thoughts and feelings with him. Chances are he's more focused on himself. You would think that he would want to hear from you if he hardly sees you. So what's up with that? If you move in together, that may give him more of a reason to ignore you. Knowing he'll see u when he goes home. Not sure. Gd luck though.

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  • 8 years ago

    Maybe he just wants a little space, like his own guy time. But if this is such a huge problem, I suggest you talk to him about it and try to compromise on something.

    Source(s): I'm a guy
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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Punch him in the chin and give him a kick in the left @$$ cheek. Very important, not the right cheek, but the left. Ok.

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