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It's my birthday..and boyfriend is being 'a ****' again (need opinions)?
He's great, don't get me wrong. i love him and i know he loves me too. he's just terrible with thinking what he does, or choosing friends over me. (we live now 5h away as he moved because of work, but we're moving together in 8months)
we argued a lot..but after spending 2days together we're back to normal. it was all about how he chooses his friends over me, and after a girl kissing him 6months ago and him still being (until 4months ago) bestfriends with her while she lied to me that he said he loved her etc....
anyway, it's my 21st today..he promised (as always) to call at midnight, he didnt. just texted happy birthday. then nothing..today we barely spoke..i was really hoping to talk to him most of the day on skype as he has all day free and so do i.
he was out with friends and still is. i just told him im upset and he tried calling but i dont feel like talking only when i tell him what to do.
i'm annoyed and fed up..i love him but im having enough of promises and not keeping them. yes he loves me with all his heart, but still.
it's my birthday..i should be having fun not getting upset.
6 Answers
- ?Lv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
Let me just say Happy Birthday,I have read your question & it appears that he likes going out with his mates rather than you he cannot have both its either you or his mates you will have to mention this to him,if he makes promises that he cannot keep then dump him for somebody who you can rely on,its not fair on you,he is inconsiderate & makes you cry,let him know that this is his last chance,if he dose,nt improve then that,s it,you can do a lot better for yourself,no doubt you are good looking & can attract the men,let him sweat for a change,I hope it works out for you,good luck & all the best.
- Anonymous8 years ago
In my opinion he isn't appreciating you, he's taking advantage of the relationship. He probably knows that you will forgive him and whatever he does, you will try your best to make the relationship work. Which is great, but he now feels that he does not need to try. You need to 'drift' a bit from him, show him that he could potentially lose you. If he loves you (which I'm sure he does) he will soon be back, and will realise you aren't a girl to be messed around. Don't message him unless he messages you first, same with calls, meeting up. And take AT LEAST a day if not more to reply. That'll make him think twice before letting you down again.
Source(s): Experience - lilaLv 78 years ago
It sounds like he is not putting in a fair amount of effort into your relationship. Something is up. I would give him an ultimatum, you do not deserve this. Go out and have fun, forget about your fighting for today. Happy birthday!
- chakra girlLv 78 years ago
Firstly Happy Birthday! and secondly, he does NOT love you with all his heart, he wouldn't behave the way he does if he did, you deserve better. Do yourself a favour and go out with friends and enjoy yourself,don't let him spoil things x
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- GinaLv 78 years ago
There's no question here but I would have broken up with him. Just because you love each other doesn't mean you're good for each other.
