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I cant move on after my boyfriend "cheated" on me. (please help!!!!)?
I'll try to be quick...
6months ago he went to USA for 6months. He wasn't a gd boyfriend then..I got spoken to once a week. He was great friends with many girls. Went on trips with them and didnt talk to me then at all for weeks..no contact. She kissed him and then he kept being her great friend. He ofc told me after I shouted at him over the phone 4months after it happened. He still saw her..and when he got back I read messaged of her flirting with him and asking to stay over. He agreed but apparently cancelled. The photos show she liked him...when he got back 6months ago i messaged her n she was horrible. Told me he promised her being together amd had sex. But he denayed it.. cried and apologised. He still gets VERY upset over it and says he's stupid n regrets all but he never cheated on me.
I love him n I can see he adores me to as he bought engagement ring. But I cry and cant move on :'( :'(
6 Answers
- Anonymous7 years agoFavorite Answer
- AprilLv 67 years ago
Sweetie, how you feel is NOT unjust. Trust can be broken in a matter of seconds. You just have to remember that actions DO speak louder than words. He knew that this would hurt you and he did it anyways. He knew that it was wrong. He knew it was wrong to even disrespect your feelings and your relationship. Years of trust can break in a matter of seconds and who knows, there could have been someone else other then her.
- Anonymous7 years ago
hey hun
i was cheated on and i was in a relationship with the person for about 2 years
and he done it but i knew about it made me feel sick but i found out after i broke up with him because we didn't break up because of that was because i knew and felt that hes done something because like you said urs went quiet that's when you can tell and you know what cheating on me has made me so much stronger person
and to move on its hard but easy if you have any boy friends you close to start to talk to them and they will give you the confidence to move on and forget about him
get your friends over more get out of the house i never left the house until i went out one night saw him out and laughed becuase hes a mug and you learn you can do so much better looks and personality wise
DONT stay with him please what ever you do because it gets you no where
your trust will be exstremly low you wont be able to trust him which means constant contact which annoys men
and it wont be the same he DONT love you horrible to say that sorry hun he dont FACT becuase if he did he wouldnt cheat is a load of rubbish he just dont want to be alone same to you
3 months after my ex cheated on me now in new realtionship someone ten times better lookin and personality is amazing and makes me feel lot better than ex did
take the advice and use it to good use hun i know a lot about relationships
since he cheated on me i dont get attached and dont fall deeply in love untill you know there worth it <3
hope i helped darling xx
- 7 years ago
Try to talk it through and see if you two can get past this as a couple. It will probably require a lot of talking.
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