Boyfriend's mum is being a nightmare recently..and boyfriend does nothing about it.?

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We been together for 2years :) good happy relationship, and planning on moving in, in 8months :D

at first when i met her, she was lovely, and we got along perfectly! until about 4months ago..we all went away to scotland for 3weeks to their family holiday house :) us and my bf's brother and his gf. me and his gf dont get along at all, she hates me and is jealous as they only been together for 10months. then his mum treated me worse...i was always second than that girl. she had better room, front car seat and when i was ill i got told to man up.
then when we got back everytime i go there for dinner, his mum and dad insist he goes away to another country to work for a year or so, ofc i couldnt go with him as im finishin Uni here. they say it in front of me, and even when my bf says he'll get job close here as we're moving in, they ignore it and continue.
i dont like going round there again..and my bf promised to talk to them however he's back to being mummy's boy and calling and texting her.
she contacts him 24/7 and needs to know what he's doing and when (even when we're together) , and yes he lives away from home atm for Uni :)

what should i do? i really can't take it..and bf says he'll talk, but mummy's little boy isnt going to say anything..

my bf says he's always 100% behind him and knows his mum is being a ***** atm.

help?

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You hold him accountable.

Do not go to his family's house for dinner again. Simply tell him you know you're not welcome there.

If his mum texts him while you are on a date together and he READS the message, then you tell him "We'll get together another time when you aren't so busy with your messages." And then you SERIOUSLY get up and go home. Date over. Cell phones are to be shut off during dates unless someone is currently in the hospital.

I don't care what he says. You judge him by his actions.

If he was dating Mila Kunis or Kate Upton, do you think her would be talking to his mom while he is on a date? Not a chance. This demonstrates that his interest in you is low.

Anonymous · Answer

If he won't do anything about it flat out refuse to go to any outings with his family there. It's not fair on you, but ultimately they seem to want you out the picture & don't let them win. Tell your partner you love him but you can't be in the same room as his family if they keep treating you like dirt. Just don't make him choose between you or his family!

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Boyfriend's mum is being a nightmare recently..and boyfriend does nothing about it.?

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