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Do you have problems?

I want to know what your problems are.. No one has the perfect life.. Here's mine, I am 42, 3 boys, live with their over protective grandmother, mom is in prison and I have no control over their lives. I work 2 jobs, Live at home, no girlfriend , and live paycheck to paycheck . I don't drink or smoke. I try to be a good dad, I never treat them bad, but at their age , (21-20 & 16) they don't want to hang with dad anymore. I do pay my bills and my mom for rent. I want a girlfriend, but I have too much baggage at my age, and other women my age have problems too, but mine seem worse for some reason. I can't afford a lawyer to get my boys, their mom just went to prison recently got a year. She signed them over to the grandma. Perhaps I'm boo-hoo-ing over nothing. I feel i don't have control of my life.

What's your life like?

I'll take criticism too, if your life is so perfect.

Thanks...

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  • 8 years ago
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    heres my problem..why is this in the math section?

    But seriously,your probably feeling like your losing some control,but what we do know is we cant control everything..you can be an example to your boys and show them direction and hope it takes heed..if not,its not you to blame..flip the page back when you were that age...how did you behave? Were you taking advice from your parents or did you chose your own path? They are not at fault for how you turned out,and i think you've done great considering what path you did choose. Hopefully they know that,and don't have to go through what we have..

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