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This girl is deranged I can't make her stop?

The other night I went on a date with this girl and she told me she loved me after the first date. I thought it was kind of cute but a little weird. Then yesterday she texted me all day long asking if I ever wanted to get married, have children, ect. I told her to slow down we only just meet and she stopped talking to me for the night. This morning I woke up and she told everyone on Facebook I asked her to marry me. I told her what are you doing we are not engaged and she just ignores my text and sends one back saying I can't wait to spend my life with you. What do I do? I mean I can't exactly cut her out of my life she is friends with all my friends. How does someone become that delusional that they want to marry someone after only know them for 2 days.

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  • Oliver
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    There was a girl just like that in my group of friends back in high school. Your mutual friends won't hold it against you, and if they confront you, just tell them the truth. The girl I knew would blow through boyfriends in 3-5 days on average, and we just told her to stop being a drama queen when she lamented over the loss of a boyfriend that she had for 72 hours.

    Also, this girl needs a reality check. Break up with her and tell her the truth about why. She's living in a fantasy world and needs to come to terms with the realities of dating.

  • Mabe
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    It sounds to me that this girl knows you enough as friends, and friends of friends, that she's probably had a crush on you for awhile. Trying to rush that, smacks of her knowing that other girls are probably interested in you too, or could be. She's trying to put a block on that, by making it appear that you are taken. Not a good thing for you. It's a trap. Done by someone that is possessive and controlling to an extreme, and not really the type of girl you want to be with, because this is what she capable of, in regards to you, and if this is how she does it to get her way with you, then she will continue on with it, in regards to anything else that she wants in a relationship with you. My advice. Teach her a lesson, and quit seeing her, telling her the reason why. Word will get out soon enough by it. Why? Because people talk. Start hanging out with your friends, or dating other girls, if asked about it, then set them straight about it, with your side of the story. How things will look on her, is her problem. Not yours. Nix, on the name calling, and rather say she moved too fast for how you felt about it.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You need to delete her as a friend from Facebook and block her, make sure your settings are private. Then block her number or change your own. Do not make contact with her, keep her as far away as possible. If she doesn't get the hint then you need to straight up tell her that you are not interested in her and that her behavior is unacceptable and you will not tolerate it then leave it at that. Tell your friends not to tell her your business or any gossip about you either.

  • 8 years ago

    Bad experiences,best to be honest.

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