Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
What's your perspective on this? Can you offer some advice?
I am 17 and I was wanting eagerly to join the United States marine corps. I had a girlfriend of two years she promised everything would be great at first and then just yesterday she confessed to me she felt 4 years was too much. I do understand that but in this situation she had promised me she would wait. She would show me pictures of couples she wanted us to resemble when I got back. She always told me she was loyal and in the last minute where I needed it to count she said to me she wanted to end the relationship. I did I wished her the best as I do love her she was my princess and I'd give her anything for her to be happy. Although to my surprise she would be happier if we broke up. I feel I miss her but I don't want to get back together if that's the kind of loyalty she really has. I just need at the very least some advice.
1 Answer
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
Wow that must have been really hard for you, I am sorry to hear about that. Honestly though, you should take that as a sign that she is not the girl for you. If someone truly loves you with all their heart, they will wait for you. I know you say you understand why she would feel that way, but as an 18 yr old girl myself, I don't understand her at all. If I really loved a guy and wanted to make it work, you bet I would wait 4 years for him if I truly felt he was the one. I know you miss her, but trust me she did you a favor, it is her loss. You really do not want to be with someone who doesnt understand your worth. If she isnt willing to wait and stay loyal to you as your girlfriend, she never deserved you in the first place. Making promises to you just to break them the moment that things get difficult? That's not the kind of girl you want in your life. One day you will find an amazing girl who will keep her promises and be loyal to you no matter what the situation or the distance. Just be patient, and dont give up on finding that someone cuz you will. Just please do not try to get her back, if a person wants out let them free. Your heart wasnt meant for them, but for someone better.