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Why not encourage cheating? :p?

I slightly like someone who talks to me kind of frequently. He said he likes me, and I would flirt back but he has a girl at home. He asks me to hang after work but I'm afraid we're going to be tempted to- more than just talk. Should I accept his invite and simply trust myself- that I won't do anything that I'll feel bad about later. Or should I constantly reject him but keep the friendship we we have?

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  • 8 years ago

    people have different ways of thinking and different personalities. if you get the impression that he wants to do more than just hang out, then there's a good chance that you and him will do more. but that doesn't mean there's a guarantee. as i said, people think and act different. so in all truth, it's all in what you believe and it's your decision in the end. you just never know because perhaps he is having trouble with his other at home and is tempted to go with someone else. but the scary side is that there might not be any problem with his other at all and the problem is him. don't jump into a relationship too fast!!! and don't ever allow him to make you do anything you don't want to. and i'm not trying to say that he would do such bad things, but i don't know the guy. best of luck to you.

    Source(s): having to bear witness to my dad and stepmother argue over so many things over the years and finally break up this year with 2 kids of their own
  • 8 years ago

    As someone who is in a long distance relationship with someone who is away at school I am going to say stay away from him. How would you like to be that girl at home? No one likes a home wrecker

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Don't be a *****, he has a girlfriend, why don't you stop being inconsiderate and look at it at her point of view. What would you do if HE was YOUR boyfriend, and some random girl flirts with him and does weird things with him. You think you would be okay with that? I would feel like complete ****. That's why we don't encourage cheating, cause it's for unfaithful *******

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    If you've lost interest in your boyfriend. Save yourself the embarassment, and break your relationship up before doing something like that. If you're caught cheating, you're going to hurt your rep. and lose your credibility, You'll be watermarked in peoples eyes as a cheater.

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  • 8 years ago

    It all boils down to this in everything you do........ treat people the way you would want to be treated. Having said that do u want someone u r dating to be messing around behind ur back?............ find someone who is single. This Guy isn't good for u he is taken and has nerve to flirt behind girls back....please stay away from him. Bad idea.

  • Rick B
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Of course you should avoid him.

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