Nala

I contacted X's family, friends and employers with the purpose of improving the petitioner’s behavior towards women he dates. If they felt annoyed, they could've blocked me on social media, as well as my phone number. Even when I make a new social media pages, they could've kept blocking them.

When I contacted the employers of the petitioner's family members, and the church, I asked to remain anonymous for my safety. I did not accuse him of being a rapist, I simply expressed my concern. I am concerned about X because he has previously insulted me and when I tried to talk to him about the night he caused me pain, he refused to listen.

On December 30th 2017, the petitioner called my house phone number and I feared that he found my address online and might come close to my family. I called 911 but decided not to have an officer come over. I decided that I would call the police back if the petitioner approached us.

I decided to start expressing my opinion after the petitioner called my house. I never provided the petitioner with personal information such as my last name, home address, and home phone number.

In September 2017, when I first tried to talk to x about the pain he caused, he threatened to call the police on me. Ever since then, my purpose for messaging the petitioner has been to promise him that I do not have a problem with him, I would never approach him nor anyone he knows, and I asked him to not contact police. because it wasn't necessary.

I met the sweetest guy and we hit it off right away. He would always text me good morning or hru. And although he's still super polite, he doesn't text me that much anymore. Sometimes he ignores my text, but he responds when I send him a picture and ask for more pictures. At first he seemed like a guy who could talk about anything but I'm afraid he might only care about pics now. And he goes on a dating website, he knows that I do too. I'm thinking about making new friends, to hang out with. Should I tell him?

Does he seem like a guy who only cares about intimacy and doesn't care about me?

He s implying that I m valueless.

m trying to talk to a guy and although he s busy with school/ work he talks to me ever 3-7 days. It s day 7 and I kinda had a bad day so I initiated a conversation with him. He hasn t replied and I m thinking about calling him, only once. I texted him at 10pm, it s getting late. How much longer should I wait to see if he replies? Should I call tmrw? I would have a better night if I hear from him tonight. I would have no idea at what time to call tmrw. Should I not call at all? Wait a few days to call or text again? Wait all the way until the semester is over in December to reach out (boooo) lols?

So I met two guys (A and B) I met A in June and he invited me to his family s house. We watched a movie and kissed, he asked to see me again. On the next date he said he was interested in sx. So on the third date we tried ho0king up. It didn t work out for me because I don t have much experience. I thought he would never talk to me again. After a short talk about his room decor, he kicked me out and explained that his religious brother was heading home. I asked him what he thought of us and whether he enjoyed spending time with me. He responded, "idk" to every question. We have not hung out since. It has been over a month, he ignored a few of my texts but he doesn t seem to pay too much attention to his phone. I texted him how are you on Mon. and he replied back today asking to hang out!

During August I met B online. I have not met him in person but we ve exchanged tons of intimate photos. Although he s a busy guy, he constantly tells me he misses me. And he keeps the conversation going. He seems to worry if I don t reply quickly. I can t tell if he actually likes me or if he s just anxious to ho0k up. I already told him I have a hard time with s3x . He s inexperienced too. If I meet up with A and kiss him & give him a bj, idk if I should tell B. I want to be honest but I don t want to lose him. And idk if I want to tell A that I want to meet up with B and mess around with him. Idk if I have a favorite guy lol. Is there an obvious choice? What should I say and to who?

Theres someone who talks to me kind of frequently. He said he likes me, and I would flirt back but he has a girl at home. He asks me to hang after work but I'm afraid we're going to be tempted to- more than just talk. Should I accept his invite and simply trust myself- that I won't do anything that I'll feel bad about later. Or should I constantly reject him but keep the friendship we we have?

It's really tempting because this opportunity NEVER comes around for me. Throughout high school and college I never had much contact with guys. And I like him.

I slightly like someone who talks to me kind of frequently. He said he likes me, and I would flirt back but he has a girl at home. He asks me to hang after work but I'm afraid we're going to be tempted to- more than just talk. Should I accept his invite and simply trust myself- that I won't do anything that I'll feel bad about later. Or should I constantly reject him but keep the friendship we we have?

Theres a guy I liked two years ago. We never dated, but we did kiss once or twice. Afterward, we had a major fallout. Hes the only guy Ive been affectionate with like that, which is why getting over him is a challenge.

I saw him not so long ago, and the feelings slightly resurfaced. However, we are practically enemies. Theres no way he's going to want to reconnect.And there is no way to reconnect. How do I deal with this unwanted crush? Thanks!

There's a guy in my class who I noticed because he reminded me of someone. Anyway, he always looks at me, or stares a little, and then look away. It becomes pretty obvious to me, and I wanted to approach him and say hi, but I'm a little shy. Anyway, he has a twitter account and I decided to write something to him on there, as my last attempt at communicating with him. So I tagged him and said that he looked familiar, blah blah. And I'm pretty sure he deleted it, it doesnt appear on his twitter wall. I'm pretty sure he must've recognized me.

Idk what all the starring was about?

I'm a little confused and upset, I wonder what's on his mind, but it seems like there is nothing more I can do.

Suggestions?

Thanks c:

I'm kinda confused about all of this, because I'm not surprised that he doesn't wanna talk to me, but

Alright, someone caught my eye and I might be catching feelings. However, I don't know what to do about it. I know that its traditional for guys to make the first move, but I dont want the opportunity to pass me by. He's in one of my classes, but doesn't sit near me. I've seen him around campus reading and stuff. He seems approachable, but I don't know what the heck I'd say to him lol. I assume that the first step would be to smile, but I'm really shy, lol.

Anyone have ideas on initiatives I can take? I only have 2 more months in this class. I know there will always be the option of facebook, but I dont think I wanna take that approach.

An advantage I see is the fact that we're in the same class, this gives me a topic to discuss. I just need a good opportunity.

There was this guy I kinda liked. He tld me he didnt wanna be my bf, but one day he was acting flirty. And then i began talking about kissing, and he kissed me, but the next day he said that that wasn't real. (He was just using me)

And then we didn't speak for a while. When we started speaking again- we hung out, he was nice, and ended up spontaneously making out and touching. I think we were about to take things further.

A few days later he confesses that he was using me, and that i'm stupid and easy. He added that the only thing he likes about me is that i allow him to kiss me. (yeah he's a real ****)

Do ya'll think he's right? :/

Here's my side of the story. I hadn't been kissed before, so I was just curious to try it. And I like other guys better than him, but they're not willing to be affectionate with me. Thats why i do it with him. Are we mutually using each other (almost like friends with benefits or make-out buddies)? Am I showing slutty behavior? :/ (because i am typically a good girl)

(PS everything is over between him and I)

thanks readers...be polite, please.