What can I expect when I am put up for adoption?

Actually 3 of my foster foster kids were dumped at the JO office by their parents...it IS legal & it does happen. worst case they have to pay child support.

Foster homes are all very different. But you should expect rules, case workers, therapy, moving schools, & limited access to former friends/life.

I'm sorry to hear you are having a hard time. Just so you know, your father can not just "put you in a foster home". The only people that can do that are social workers. If you have already had a social worker visit your home then you have what is called a "case" meaning they will be checking in with your family from time to time to see how you are doing. If they decide the environment is unsafe or unsuitable for you in anyway or if you tell them about your previous issues and tel them you would like to be removed from the home, they can make the decision to do so.

You should know that being placed in foster care does not guarantee a better life. There is a possibility that you will be moved from home to home and no guarantee that you will be adopted.

If you have other family members or friends that will help you, I would recommend talking to them first.

Hope this helps, good luck.

Your dad can't just write off his responsibilities like that. He's legally obligated to care for you till you turn 18.

Sorry you're having these problems. Is there a teacher, school counselor, or someone at your church you could talk to? If there's no one, then you can call the Boystown National Hotline (girls can call, too) at 1-800-448-3000. Someone there will listen and help you figure out how to deal with this.

I would expect to be put into many different homes until they find the one that is right for you.