Should I expose my ex?

Just quit the girl and her family and her friends. Don't have anything more to do with any of them. If she, and Washington law, do not want you to know what with the baby, then so be it. Let it slide (you can't do anything about it now anyway..and if she had kept the baby, would you really want to have to pay her child support and be connected to her for the rest of the baby's life?). Just chalk it up to experience and let it go, get on with better things. Ignoring her will hurt her more then taking any further steps. If you contact her mom even anonymously, it means you are still very hung up on this trash. And the mom will probably ask her daughter and the girl will probably know it's you. The parents probably already have an idea of what their daughter is anyway. Get out of her life, get her out of yours, find someone else who is better for you. Get on with your life because she's only dragging you down.

Expose My Ex Girlfriend

This is pretty messy and I'll be honest here: it DOES sound like you've got a lot of anger and that you're letting it cloud your opinion of all girls in general. There are definitely a lot of messed up girls out there but there are also a lot of really nice ones too.

That being said, she does sound like a piece of work and I can see where you feel manipulated and lied to and why you want revenge in a way. Don't do it. Every second of your life that she gets to live in your mind is another moment that she wins. Don't let her. What she did to you was really terrible and she's definitely not a good person to have in your life. Unfortunately you're going to have to accept that you will never know the truth about her possible pregnancy. The sooner you can accept this, the sooner you can let go and move on.

Don't tell her family about her. Think about it. Who ar they more likely to believe? Their daughter or a random stranger? There's a good chance that they will figure out that you were the one behind it anyhow and there's no way that they will believe you over her. There's also a very good chance they they would take it to the police and you would be in trouble for harassing her. Is she really worth that kind of trouble? I doubt it. So don't let her win by bringing more drama into your life because of her. Let her do her own thing and stay far away from her.

If she's really manipulative and is having fun playing mind games with you then there's a good chance that she will try to get your attention again once she figures out that you're gone from her life for good. Don't play into it because that's just her and her games. Just delete her number and be done with it.

It's hurtful when people treat us badly but we only hurt ourselves more if we allow their actions to make us vengeful.

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Should I expose my ex?

I am in a bit of a moral dilemma. My ex girlfriend was a pre-madonna who had a bad habit of lying to get things she wanted. Her parents do ok in real estate and inter design and they have quite a bit of money. She grew up in Issaquah Washington which is a pretty upper class area. When I met her,...

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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.

Well, I hope you're really looking for advice instead of validation, because I have some blunt words for you.

First, you're not in a moral dilemma. You're not making a choice that is necessary or that will hurt people no matter what you do. Your choice is to be a crazy, vindictive weirdo who can't let go of an ex or... nothing. That's the choice here. Either be nuts or don't be nuts.

Second, your note is disturbing. You call your ex a prostitute. You label all the women in your state as "messed up." You stalked your ex. Not only did you stalk her, you now blame HER for your arrest! Then you messaged her friends nasty, hateful things about her. You dated her, but you label her a "nasty tramp." You didn't "end up finding" her mother's email, you specifically went looking for it because YOU STILL DON"T GET THE MESSAGE THAT YOUR PRESENCE IN THIS WOMAN"S LIFE IS NOT WANTED. You play the victim, labeling yourself "so hurt and lied to."

I mean, are you for real? You sound insane and dangerous. If I knew you, I would call the police and have them put a restraining order on you to keep you away from this woman.

Get a grip. Leave her alone. Accept that she does not want you around anymore. And here's a hint; if you feel that "all" the women in your state are horrible, it is probably you. You're the common denominator here. Get help.

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You don't get it. This is not about you being a male. Lose the "I'm a victim" attitude. This is about you sounding insane and dangerous.

She may have manipulated you. I don't know. But you know what? I would be much more likely to believe you if you didn't sound insane. You need to understand that if you sound insane, people are not going to feel sorry for you. They are going to think your ex is the victim.

Let me be very clear: if she faked being pregnant, then that is nuts. But you are acting MORE nuts right now. Calm down. Stay away from her. I guarantee that if you do not stay away, YOU will end up in trouble. And if you do stay away, karma will get her in the end. People who do things as nuts as faking pregnancy will eventually be caught out.

Leave it to karma to get her. Leave her alone or you will end up in trouble and you will end up making people think you are nuts.

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I'm not in a competition with you. I am providing the advice you asked for. My advice is that you need to step back because you sound insane right now. This is not the way to convince people you are the wronged one here.

You ask how you sound nuts. Read my first reply again. Third paragraph. You can insult me, but that will not mean that you don't sound nuts. You can either take the advice or leave it.

The term is "prima donna," directly translated as "first lady," and referring to the primary or featured female singer in opera. The equivalent male lead is "primo uomo," for which you qualify. You are an ex, not judge, jury and executioner. You may rationalize your spite all you wish, but you'd do better to leave well enough alone.

i can see people's reasonings on why it would be wrong of you to e-mail her mother, but i am starting to believe that just ignoring it (as people are saying) is the wrong thing to do. no one is held accountable for bad behavior anymore and that is a shame because what is she going to learn by getting away with all of this? how will it affect her future if she continues along this path? i am sure it will not be good. i would anonomously send the mail about the college issue, but nothing else.

now, you need to let this go afterward. the fact is, there is no child, you are out of jail, and she is not worth your time. and you need to take responsibility yourself. you were using her for sex, you knew what she was doing, you knew what she was, and you kept going with her. let that be a life lesson on what to avoid in the future.

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