Why do the good girls have no self confidence?

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I am not interested in Barbie doll, super-attractive women because most of them cheat on you, treat you like crap, and clean out your bank account. However, average plus size girls are the nicest, sweetest, most caring women who are faithful and treat you well. They are also better in bed and are great to hold and grab onto. The problem is that with my past plus size girlfriends none of them have any self-confidence which causes the relationships to end. I try to tell them how they make perfect girlfriends and are so desirable and easy to fall in love with but it just doesn't register with them. Can someone help me in getting a loyal, caring, sweet plus size women. Plus size women are THE BEST BY FAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sookie sookie · Accepted Answer

beign overweight girls get picked on there whole lives adn from teh media and men we are told we are not thin enough. but usually a guy saying you are beautiful can make a girls day. and having them appreciate what we do and sharing the work load making dinner sometimes do soem laundry and cleanign. etc good luck just have a partner

answer mine please!!

me · Answer

Idk about "Barbie doll" but I'm considered pretty attractive and I'm not like that at all. I've also met plenty of bitter, irresponsible plus-sized women with the exact crappy personality you described. You really shouldn't generalize so much.

They're probably insecure because, well, society pretty much tells them they're not beautiful. Men are very critical of womens' looks and insecurity is a problem that girls of all hotness levels can have

Anonymous · Answer

i find that the lack of confidence is why they are suuuuuuuuuuuuper sweet and will do anything to keep a man so i wouldn't complain.  enjoy - it's always a double edge sword

Ashley · Answer

When you aren't super-attractive, its hard to have confidence. We're afraid of being rejected because of how we look :/

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Why do the good girls have no self confidence?

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