Is it a bad thing that I spend so much time alone?

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I am a 20 year old guy and I really have no friends I see people at the gym and have a few acquaintances in college but no one I hang out with

for the past 2 years my social circle has gotten smaller and smaller some were toxic friends I cut ties with. Others just simply didn't call me up or anything

and I recently lost my job but I still didnt hang out with any of my co-workers

And I gotten used to doing everything alone going out to eat I take these long nature walks at the park read stay home watch movies play video games.

I dont have a problem socializing with people I just dont like hanging out with anybody anymore I'm not bitter but I do get annoyed fast now

is being alone this much bad in the long run

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You have just described me. Except I'm a chick.

"I dont have a problem socializing with people I just dont like hanging out with anybody anymore I'm not bitter but I do get annoyed fast now"

There's nothing wrong with this. I get annoyed quite easily. I think "oh hey, I would have a blast with this person" and then come to find out I wish I never started talking to them because they're obnoxious. And that's with everyone. I have 0 friends. I just wish I was COMPLETELY content with it. Honestly it's good to have one or two buddies. But if you're content with being alone in the friendship area, then I'd say you're golden. It's your happiness that matters.

Anonymous · Answer

There's nothing wrong enjoying your own
Company or just wanting space to focus
But it's healthy to interact with people you do click
With as it fills your mind and heart with
A nurturing fulfillment that may be lacking being alone

Cheers :)

? · Answer

Yeah my dude it'a depression if you ask me.
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Is it a bad thing that I spend so much time alone?

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