How can I style my hair like this?

I'm a hair stylist, so I can help you. Basically you can't just start with your normal hair to go on. You have to get it CUT to style it. Go to some salon and show them the picture and have them cut it. Describe it too. Once it's cut at good length thickness, take a shower and make sure your hair is damp, dry it and stuff. Then you start combing it in the direction. I do NOT recommend gel or wax much, especially those are for like extreme hold and stuff, use something light. Putty would work. The places that need hold spots, use it. Enter a small amount and rub into palms of your hands. Then, to make sure it stays-well if u have hold! then use hairspray at the end.

VERY IMPORTANT- using any wax or putty, or any of that can dry your hair out so use like dandruff scalp stuff every day or depending on the style, not precise, but blow drying will work too.

Good luck :)

Looks like a good blow out. Her hair doesn't look piecey enough for wax and not held down enough for gel. Just a good blow out and maybe a few products applied when wet to give it a nice smooth, none-frizz texture.