Should I stay with her or should we break up?

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I'm 21 years old and I met this girl who is super nice. I like her and we have been going out for a month now. She is 20 years old and she is a Christian and she doesn't want to have sex until marriage. I respect her and her decision, but when we make-out I get a little horny. (Excuse my language but it is true). She doesn't mind me touching her but she doesn't want to touch me in the down stairs area (if you know what I mean). 
 We are both virgins , but I want her to touch me. It's tough having this feeling and not doing anything about it. She told me today that no matter what, her beliefs on sex or anything related to sex will have to wait until marriage. So basically I have only two choices either stay with her or break up and find someone else. I like her but I don't know what to do.

N · Answer

A month isn't that long.  Maybe wait it out a while longer and things may change.  Even for someone with such strong convictions its tough to hold out forever, especially if she really likes you.  In the long run though I would say that being abstinent, just like being sexually active, is a decision made in unison.  If it isn't your value system then you are depriving yourself of an experience.

Anonymous · Answer

You&#x27;ve only been together for a month. Try not to worry about sexual things. Wait until she is comfortable. And if you are not pleased with the relationship after a while. Then end it. But for now don&#x27;t make any rash decisions.

amber loves jose · Answer

first i think you should respect her and herbeliefs on sex but if your not in love with her and really want to experience sex (safe sex) thenyou should probably break up with her you guys already have that as an obstacle and obviously your mentalities are different
and no dont cheat its better to break up than to cheat

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