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Do you think I was being hurtful?
I attend a local community college, as I've said before, and there was this girl in one of my classes whom I had a big crush on. I thought she was gorgeous. Tall, nice legs, long blonde hair right down her back, always dressed nice.
I made an effort to try to know her, though I'm really shy and awkward. Nonetheless, we began talking to each other more frequently and I even got her number. Then our school had a two week break and we didn't text each other or anything. More specifically, I blocked her cell phone number and stopped texting her. I then avoided her altogether at school and we haven't spoken since.
I just decided I didn't like her as much as I initially though. I didn't want to make it dramatic and tell her that, so I tried to make it less painful.
Did I do the wrong thing?
2 Answers
- DobiegalLv 78 years ago
well if she never questioned it, no. But if she asked you and you ignored her, then yes. It would show character to be honest, but that doesn't mean having to hurt her feelings, all you need to say is, I think you're a nice gal, but I don't think we're a match. She didn't text you and you didn't text her for 2 weeks. It might have been mutual, but in the future, if a girl asks, you can say I'd rather not be in a relationship right now, or we're not a match. Honest, but without getting personal.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Yes. Just because u don't like her doesn't mean u can't be her friend. I have many friends that are girls and I go to them whenever I need advice on something girl related. SOME girls are fragile and will cry over something like that while others won't but it doesn't change the fact that u should at least be nice to them. And trust me I used to have a problem taliing to girls but I got some friends that are girls and they help alot. Plus she might have some hot friends that u like and she could set u up on a date.
