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I need desperate HELP! Pornography related!?
I recently got married 4 months ago but there is a huge problem, I have been addicted to pornography for a very long time :/ I want to stop, I need to before I lose my husband...Every time I think of losing him I stop but then temptation gets to me... Please give me advice...don't bullshit please.
I want to save my marriage, divorce is not an option.
HE DOESN'T KNOW I WATCH IT!-.- He knows I have watched it before, but he doesn't know I still watch it, I'm ashamed.
5 Answers
- ?Lv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm going to tell you something that will set you free from this. Pornography is NOT an addiction even though many people call it that. True addictions occur when a substance chemically alters the body and brain so that the body "requires" it. This is true for substance abuse. What you have is a bad habit. And like any habit, you can unlearn it and replace it with a better one. For starters, you need to look at when and why you choose pornography. Do you have a lot of free time on your hands? Do you normally use it when you're bored, anxious or depressed? Keep track of these feelings and times. Then you choose better ways to occupy your time. Go to the gym, go shopping, take a walk, read a book, watch some tv. If necessary - get rid of the internet. Ya - I'm serious! If it's a trigger and you really want to stop, get rid of it! Your husband would understand if you were honest about wanting to stop your problem. If that isn't an option, you can also put a lot of blockers on the internet to keep it child safe or as an accountability tool. Do whatever you need to do.
Bottom line is that watching porn is a choice. It's not an addiction and you CAN stop it. You just have to make the right choices.
- Anonymous8 years ago
watch it together...well what can you do it's so there and sexy...just watch nice porn and not people abusing each other and bad stuff...and don't buy it...and what can you do...am i exactly proud of watching it no, can i stop, did i ever stop, im 35, have been watching porn since i was 9...never stopped for longer than a year...i am a terrible hypocrite....but it's just there...always been there near me...i just put it in or click it and i watch it..what can a woman do...please i am only one little human woman...i have to worry about mickey mod, and what happened to him to make him do stuff like that to himself and others, and all sorts of stuff i could do without...and see glimpses of bad porn while looking for nice one and be traumatized for life...what can a woman do...coz it's just so there...just watch it together...what else can you do...
do i make it, no, do i pay for it, no, am i sleazy porn producer, no....do i watch bad stuff, noo...please that is the best i can do...i am a very horny person...i cannot help myself...i think i have excess testosterone that makes me like porn...i dunno...
nobody asks me am i traumatized by all the cumulative glimpses of bad porn i had to sit thru over the years while looking for the good stuff...no...people are so judgmental...
does anyone even know how hard it is to find non violent, classy, non gross, non bdsm spanking sex...VERY hard half the time i have to watch girls spanking girls...
nobody cares how i feel...everyone is just aww porn is bad its unfeminist, yes and so is life on this planet and i have to live it....so back off my case y'all...
- ?Lv 68 years ago
Most guys would be thrilled to find out their wives were into watching porn, I know I would, then I would know she was into something at least.
- 8 years ago
lol I watch porn alot, all my bfs had found it hot, why not include him into the porn viewing?
- Anonymous8 years ago
does he have a problem with you watching porn? and why? it's tv. who cares?