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Braty
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Braty asked in Pregnancy & ParentingAdolescent · 7 years ago

My 13 year old daughter has a little boyfriend?!!?

My initial reaction is what the f#&&%5!!! She's too young..blah blah .I have asked my friends and family for advice on how to handle it .Do I not make a big deal of it or forbid it and keep her in the house until she's 16? The boy is a good kid who lives around the block but still...

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago
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    she is still a baby. maybe u can allow the boy hang around but under ur control - maybe something like let him come inside ur house to speak/make friends with ur daughter but only when/if u r home

  • 7 years ago

    Hey theese days eveyone does Lol basically all they gonna do is hang out together u shouldnt trip about it unless it gets over the (pg-13) level for now let her have her space and also boys at that age no matter how nice they are, are going through puberty and the only thing there minds can think of is video game, girls, hanging with friends, girls, watching tv and last but not least more girls so keep an eye on it but like I said give her some space but try to maintain your daughters integrity please not I am a 13 year old boy thus I know how 13 year old boys minds work and if u want to completely through my advice out the window because im 13 go ahead I'm just trying to help

  • 7 years ago

    They would honestly be too innocent to be hopefully thinking like that at their age although being a teenage guy myself i know if they last longer then a year or so and you have a slight thought on her being active in that way then the chances are they might be or will be in the near future. This is still younger then the anticipated age but its best to be open to her about these things and dont be shy in asking the questions just be gentle. Let her open up in whats going through her head as being a teenager she will think im immune to things etc but if somehow you can relate to her at all then that will help you not only deal with the situation but with hopefully parenting also. One thing dont become like a friend to her although don't be someone whose perfect as in yeah my childhood i never did anything bad. Hopefully helped a little, not all will be useful but extract what you think is right from this

    Thanks.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    im a 17 year old teenager and im going to be straight with you. no amount of forbidding or rules etc will stop the relationship because she'll go behind your back. and for the love of crist do not try to do the "no birth control and no sex" deal. because they will do it anyway. very few of us keep up with the morals involving

    marriage. im a "good kid" but me and my girlfriend do "things" so if yours asks for BC shes being responsible and its in her best interest to provide it. although say that you dont support sex and explain the consequences of an unintended preg. but just allow her to experiance a relationship. help her feel better if he hurts her and let her grow. what doesnt kill her will make her stronger. also if i came off as rude or offencive i appologise. this was the only way i knew how to say it

  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Lol people are dating in elementary school these days... 13 is no big deal. If the kid's good I wouldn't worry.

  • 7 years ago

    My husband lost his virginity with his "little girlfriend" at age 13. I will not allow my daughter to date that young, no way in hell.

  • Agree with Trang also U.U

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  • Rachel
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    She's not too young... She could be an adult.

    I had my first boyfriend when I was 9, it's going to happen, just don't worry about it.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    Get ready for the nightmare.

  • 7 years ago

    i agree with Trang.

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