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is it proper for a woman engaged to be married to meet an ex boyfriend alone?
who just arrived from abroad at the airport?
and i am requested to accompany her but i refused because i deemed it is not right though i seek other opinions too to make it final.
no relatives of the man know he is arriving
@cincarplz....she is not my girlfriend, she just dont know how to get there.
@cincarplz....she is not my girlfriend, she just dont know how to get there.
this female friend of mine justify that she needs no romantic involvement with him since they broke up with both of them cheating each other, lol..and the fiance has no idea what she is doing.
@ryder..lol, thanks for your concern..well, i cant say if she likes me and i have no intention to play with her. She had told many of her past relationship and those recent ones even when they know she's engaged. As for me, i dont do flirting on her as i respect and honor their engagement.
The problem is,she did went to the airport and met him. I am in a predicament as whether to cover her up though she said they wont do anything foolish or to divulge this to the man as a moral obligation.
Next time, I'd refuse to be a confidant. Hard to be an accessory
12 Answers
- XYZLv 47 years agoFavorite Answer
If I were the fiancé, I would give her one chance and one chance only. She has to choose and if she chooses to go meet her ex then I would call off the engagement and dump the bytch.
- CASUAL OBSERVERLv 57 years ago
I am in agreement with cincarp. There is no good reason at all that she meet with her ex alone or accompanied.
If I were her present fiancée, I would absolutely refuse to allow her to meet with her ex. It's over move on. Let the ex lick his own wounds. In fact, if she insisted on going to meet him, I would drop her immediately if not sooner.
- RyderLv 47 years ago
It appears to me that she is playing you. I think you know it and you are possibly considering some of her infidelity will come your way. She is an admitted player. Why should anyone trust her.
Ok, have fun. Just use protection and don't fall in love.
- ArtemiscLv 77 years ago
As long as there is no deception involved. If the fiancé is aware that she's doing it, it's no big deal. Doing things like this behind one's partner's back is what causes problems. Granted, some people are jealous for no reason, but that isn't good either.
If they are jealous for good reason, such as a past history of cheating, then the situation should be reevaluated.
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- delive_ranceLv 77 years ago
In my honest opinion, yes. What is there to talk about depends on the two parties involved. I personally know for sure NO WOMAN who is about to get married will still meet or see his former BF alone. Unless of course, both are sill in a constant communication. But it is considered rare in some occasion.
But since your question only ask about the LEGALITY of the situation. I think YES is the correct answer. It is not a crime and obviously what they want to do is not new since they done it LONG TIME AGO. So in my opinion WHAT IS THERE TO LOOK FORWARD in meeting an EX-bf?
An old fling or romance should stay CLOSE or SHUT or FORGOTTEN for her to MOVE ON with her normal and peaceful life. Unless she forgot somethig in the past that she want to recover or retrieve.
- BIG FOOTLv 47 years ago
Once a cheat, always a cheat. I would not cut her any slack. She is just horny again.
- HG WellsLv 77 years ago
I would take no part in it...and if that is the kind of person she is, I would be looking for a new friend.....NOT a good person.....
- clncarplzLv 77 years ago
doesn't sound good to me. I think she needs to make a choice either you or him & I think you need to move on.