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Me and my bf has been living together for approximately 6 months. But there's a problem.

Whenever things don't go his way, he gets into a fuss over it. Like one time we were looking for a store and when we couldn't find it, he gets really angry and cusses. Even once he broke his yolk for his eggs, then he threw a fit over it. A lot of times he considers his day ruined over something so small, it kills my mood at the same time. He gets mad over small things. Then he tells me to stop being so negative? What's his problem? What can I do whenever he gets mad over something?
 
*sometimes he starts to punch the walls

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I used to have same problem, but my gf make me realize that its not worth it. you should do the same thing , talk to him when he's calm let him know how bad you feel about it , and when he's angry ask him why he got angry about such a little thing and tell him that you will leave him if he doesn't stop doing it. he will start realizing that he is doing wrong. good luck

RobertRay · Answer

Sounds like a guy with a short fuse and anger issues.  Good thing you are finding this out now.  The only way to remedy it is with some kind of anger management counseling.  You need to decide if this is how you want to live the rest of your life, with the potential for things getting worse, or if you want to ask him to do something about it.

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He could have a small form of autism... My mum gets extremely angry over tiny things and she argues about it and swears for ages and then she's back and happy...but for us this only happens every couple of months... They say it might be some sort of autism (she is otherwise perfectly normal and loving and the most amazing mum ever don't get me wrong) If he gets abusive to you then obviously you need to leave...but would you want to spend your life with someone who did this often??

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he has problems

If you stay with him you risk being the target of abuse or violence

He has anger issues.

He should see a doctor or psychologist

Him ignore his issues and projecting them onto you is not healthy.

I suggest you consider putting future plans on hold until he gets professional help for his anger.

It will only get worse....

You life will not be happy.

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His problem is that he's immature with anger issues.  Think more carefully before you move in with somebody.  Until then, dump him and move on before he punches you instead of the wall

Anonymous · Answer

I would suggest you leave him, before he starts turning that aggression on you. Don't think it won't happen, because, in time it WILL, unless he starts getting counseling for anger management

IndianaJohn · Answer

the "problem" is that you are dating a boy not a man

a man has control over his emotions, your bf does not.

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