Does ny ex have the right to be angry at me? ill answer yours!?

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Ok so bascailly my ex is having an argurement with me about 'us'. She telling me off about how i have been acting ever since we broke up. The thing is she broke up with me.

Here is a bit of background to me. Im 17 but to me relationships mean something to me. I alway treat girls with respect they deserve and also treat them really well. This has left me being screwed over by girls, yet i have always tried to treat to them the best no matter what. 

To me i thought this could be something great. We only went out for 1 1/2 months. The reason why she left was because she wanted to go out on the pull and meet other guys. She even kissed a fella the after day she broke up with me and started seeing the guy after a week of knowing him. I talk to her about this and she told me it was none of my business and that i should move on. Again i was screwed over for treating her like gold.

So i just said screw it and did what i wanted. I tried to be friends with my ex and it did work. I went out and had good nights and meet with other girls cause she wasnt worth the trouble. My ex got pissed off with it all but never did say anything to my face. She even asked me if she messed me about in which i said yes you did. 

That was all months ago and since then i have been doing the same thing. I havent had a gf in that time and just meet up with girls cause im not putting myself put there to get shot down. Me and my ex went to the formal together only as friends last week. I had a great night until during the dances. For some reason she was acting different and during the slow dance even tried to kiss me. I pulled away and told no and just walked away for her. The follow morning she talked to me about it and it ended in a arguement. She started gettibg angry and was giving off about how i have been acting. My question is why is she angry? She made it clear for me to move on and that what i did! i acted friendly towards all the time and was truthful to her. So why is she angry? thanks!

MM · Answer

She's angry because she realizes she made a mistake, or at least because she was hoping you'd be there for her in case she changed her mind.  Turns out you're not, and now she has to deal with the consequences of her decision.  Just tell her that it's pretty clear she's not ready for friendship right now, so you're going to give her some time and space until she's feeling less possessive.  Then stop worrying about her and keep going on with your life.

girlygal · Answer

Ask her clearly if she still wants relationship with you as a friend or boyfriend? First of all I can never imagine my bf to be my friend after breaking up because I will never be able to handle my feelings about him and would like to investigate whom he meets or does. So the better solution is cut off all the contacts and no friendship as well.

Amanda · Answer

Hmmm maybe she is having a change of heart. Women "think" they want to move on but they don't like the guy to be moving on and succeeding at it. Maybe there was another guy she wanted so she thought she had to let you go to get him and when she let you go she couldn't get him (the other guy probably wasn't interested in her). So now she wants you back. What I would do? I would ask her what she wants. Does she want to get back together? If not, she needs to know the boundaries of "friends".

Anonymous · Answer

Either she wants you back, or just wants to know she can still have you if she ever changed her mind. Rejecting her bruised her ego.  But her reasons aren't important. It's clear you two can't stay friends. Just tell her to keep her distance and move on for good.  She's your ex, her feelings aren't your problem anymore.

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Does ny ex have the right to be angry at me? ill answer yours!?

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