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Ok so me and this girl used to see each other for a while. Me amd her got on very well and were very open with each other. She has a past.... not a major past but lengthy one and has been hurt very much by guys. Me i had a few girls but not as much as her.

Bascailly me and her where getting on really well. She giving me all the signs she wanted a relationship and said to me on numours times saying that she want me with her always but wanted to wait cause she was scared because of her past. She always initated these types convos but always knew i cared for her and wanted something the same.

But yet one day she came to mine and we acting like we normally would and then all of a sudden she gets grumpy with me and when i ask what wrong she tells me she doesnt want a relationship and that she bad at them etc. And left my house just like that. Before that she told me how i would just be another fella and that she doesnt see why im so upset.

That was the last proper convo me and her had. I would see her when im out on a saturday night or working in my local nightclub and she seems happy enough and i would say hello.

Only recently she started speaking to me again and some said she was sorry for everything and that she want a second chance. I made sure to let her know how i felt and that if she want another chance she has to work for it and decides to meet up and talk. Am i right to do so? Should even i consider a second chance on her or just leave it in the past?

Me and this guy used to date for awhile. Me and him got on extremely well and i could of told that he liked me. Only thing was that it wasnt the right time..

I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time but yet i still liked him. I have had bad relationships in the past and recently guys were only after the one thing. This guy was different but it just wasnt the right time.

When i told he was heartbroken. He told me he felt used because of how we did things with each other not that long before.. i felt so bad and told him we could he friends but he said no cause 'we know both it wouldnt work'.. i was so angry when he said this and me him havent talk properly since....

That said he wished me a happy birthday and a merry christmas after all that, and he would always say hello when he sees me in the nightclub that he works in on a saturday night and tbh i wasnt like that with him when he passed his driving test....

Now things have changed... i want to have a relationship now, and i want to truely see if me and him could have something. What should i do. Should i just text him and make casual or wait till i see him again face to face and make casual talk and see where it goes?

Ok me and this guy got on very well from the start.. i have been hurt badly before by boys but he was decent. He was really nice to me and we were more or less going out but we werent offical. One day he asked about being offical but i said i wanted to wait cause i was still scared to protect muself

A few days later i told him i considered him mine and that i wanted him with me always then i startesdto have doubts. I told him i didnt want a relationship cause i felt like im no good with them and i ratger he on my own so i dont get hurt.

The thing was though that i told him all this after me and him did pleasureable acts on each other (not sex). He was heart broken and wouldnt even speak to me as i left his house. I felt so bad..... he later texted me saying he didnt the licture of me and him and that i could keep it.. i tried talking to him, but he then told me how he felt about wjat had happened with me and him..

He was understanding of the not wanting a relationship, but he so upset about how we did what we then i told him that... he said he felt used like a toy and that i didnt consider the consenqueneces of my actions which i own up to and felt soo bad for.... i asked about being friend but he said it would never work due to what jad done...

In heen quite a while since we talked properly.. he sends the idd snapchat stuff but they arent directed at me.. i miss him and i know i fucked up but what could i do at least try him to talk to me again with a clean slate??

Can someone tell me WTF happened?

Ok bascailly me and this girl were getting really well. We enjoyed each other company and she admitted to liking me and that she never had this feeling since her last boyfriend. She has been fucked around alot with guys just to get into her pants and always ended hurt from it but she said she felt different with me.

So one day i asked her about me and her being offical but she said no and that she isnt ready just yet. I said ok and continue my day then she texted me saying she considers me hers and that she always want me their with her.

This sound good dont they? Well their yesterday she came to my house and we having a good time and things led to sexual things. Half way through it i stopped and asked what was wrong cause she seemed she wasnt enjoying it and simething was in her mind. She told she doesnt want a relationship and left my house just like that. She said she likes to be alone and that she have been having doubts ever since she said she want me their.

For some reason i feel used and i dont know why. I mean she did the deed and then fucked off... she texted me saying sorry and i knew this would be the last time i would ever talk to her so i made it known how i felt and she didnt sound to happy hearing it. Then asked that we could still be friends and i told then and there i would never work out...

Ok bascailly me and this girl were getting really well. We enjoyed each other company and she admitted to liking me and that she never had this feeling since her last boyfriend. She has been fucked around alot with guys just to get into her pants and always ended hurt from it but she said she felt different with me.

So one day i asked her about me and her being offical but she said no and that she isnt ready just yet. I said ok and continue my day then she texted me saying she considers me hers and that she always want me their with her.

This sound good dont they? Well their yesterday she came to my house and we having a good time and things led to sexual things. Half way through it i stopped and asked what was wrong cause she seemed she wasnt enjoying it and simething was in her mind. She told she doesnt want a relationship and left my house just like that. She said she likes to be alone and that she have been having doubts ever since she said she want me their.

For some reason i feel used and i dont know why. I mean she did the deed and then fucked off... she texted me saying sorry and i knew this would be the last time i would ever talk to her so i made it known how i felt and she didnt sound to happy hearing it. Then asked that we could still be friends and i told then and there i would never work out...

Am i justified in the way i acted and could anyone explain to me wtf has happened

Im only after having sex for my first time... now all of sudden my penis tip has swollen abit and it only been several hours since we had intercourse.. is this normal for someone first tims

Ok me and ex broken up cause i wasnt ready for relatinship. im only 17 and i want to experience single life. He was a first bf and a really nice guy but it wasnt the time. We hace remain really good friends with each other and can actually talk without it being awkward as we are the same school year. In now been over a year since i broke up with him and i have enjoyed being single and abke to see other guys but i feel im ready for an actual relationship. I had one since my first bf but it didnt last. My ex is currently single and also seemed to go try being single as he has kissed other girls. He had one relationship but it didnt last due to issues. He is now single and i might try my chance. It been a year and i feel like i have matured enough to actually try a relationship. He always was a fella who was relationship material and always was pleasent and caring to me evem after the relationship as one my friends told me hw said all he wanted was for me to be happy. Should i try again?

Ok bascailly me and my ex have been broken up for a bit. He was a very nice guy but i am only 16 and i wanted to see other guys. This broke him and i could tell i have hurt him. Yet he was always very friendly in school and he has never been spiteful to me. I know that it would be hard for him be he has gotten over it and he has really tried. I have always felt gultiy for what i have done to him and wished i treated it much better than i did. Me and him have both went with other people but i havent heard anything about him in a relationship. The people i went with felt different than him and they didnt feel like anything else more than just a kiss. But things have changed now. we went to the formal together as freinds and i felt different. It felt like something more than the other guys i have meet and nore like what it was before. I even tried to kiss him and he pulled away and said *no chance*. i feel like i want it to be him. How could i get him back even after i told him to move on

Ok bascailly me and my ex have been broken up for a bit. He was a very nice guy but i am only 16 and i wanted to see other guys. This broke him and i could tell i have hurt him. Yet he was always very friendly in school and he has never been spiteful to me. I know that it would be hard for him be he has gotten over it and he has really tried. I have always felt gultiy for what i have done to him and wished i treated it much better than i did. Me and him have both went with other people but i havent heard anything about him in a relationship. The people i went with felt different than him and they didnt feel like anything else more than just a kiss. But things have changed now. we went to the formal together as freinds and i felt different. It felt like something more than the other guys i have meet and nore like what it was before. I even tried to kiss him and he pulled away and said *no chance*. i feel like im ready for a realtionship and i want it to be him. How could i get him back?

Bascailly we are both 17 and are in the same school. she broke with me because she wanted to go out and kiss other guys. (we only out for about 1 1/2 months) she kissed a guy the nighr after we broke making me feel like she broke up with me just for a ramdon guy. i told i still liked her and she told me that i have to move on and that it was none of my business After that i tried being friends which worked and still works to this day. I have tried and moved on... i kissed other girls but it never did lead anything besides that.. i have gone and enjoyed my life and it get easier each day. She went out but it was rarity and she hardly kissed other guys from i jave heard.. Although she gotten angry at the fact i have went out and commented on saying that i noved on quick even though it wasnt something i wanted to do. i think she feel gulity as she has asked me i she mess me about in which i said yes. that ages ago and i she is now talking about another chance. What should i do?

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. she isnt seeing this fella and i dont think they ever were.. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up with me! any who can help it welcome

Ok so bascailly my ex is having an argurement with me about 'us'. She telling me off about how i have been acting ever since we broke up. The thing is she broke up with me.

Here is a bit of background to me. Im 17 but to me relationships mean something to me. I alway treat girls with respect they deserve and also treat them really well. This has left me being screwed over by girls, yet i have always tried to treat to them the best no matter what.

To me i thought this could be something great. We only went out for 1 1/2 months. The reason why she left was because she wanted to go out on the pull and meet other guys. She even kissed a fella the after day she broke up with me and started seeing the guy after a week of knowing him. I talk to her about this and she told me it was none of my business and that i should move on. Again i was screwed over for treating her like gold.

So i just said screw it and did what i wanted. I tried to be friends with my ex and it did work. I went out and had good nights and meet with other girls cause she wasnt worth the trouble. My ex got pissed off with it all but never did say anything to my face. She even asked me if she messed me about in which i said yes you did.

That was all months ago and since then i have been doing the same thing. I havent had a gf in that time and just meet up with girls cause im not putting myself put there to get shot down. Me and my ex went to the formal together only as friends last week. I had a great night until during the dances. For some reason she was acting different and during the slow dance even tried to kiss me. I pulled away and told no and just walked away for her. The follow morning she talked to me about it and it ended in a arguement. She started gettibg angry and was giving off about how i have been acting. My question is why is she angry? She made it clear for me to move on and that what i did! i acted friendly towards all the time and was truthful to her. So why is she angry? thanks!

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

my and have been spilt up gor about 1 and a half month which is longer our actually relationship. she ended it because she said wasnt ready for a relationship but i found out she want to see other guys espacalliy this one. She broke up with after only knowing him a guy for one week, and has been seeing him ever since we broke up. i know the guy isnt looking a relationship and is leading her on. I have been friendly to my ex even though she made me feel useless and lile i didnt matter. Yet i still tired to be friends with her. I was talking to her the other day and she turned round and asked *did i muck you about* and i turned to her and said yes you did. She said *i wasnt trying to* but i returned saying i know but you still did and that was the end of it. Her whole expression changed and she look sad so in class i said *listen dont worry about it. what done is done and we are still friends* she replied *im not worrying about it* i then said *promise* but kept going off subject. Can someone tell me what this means? Why is asking me now after a month and a half of our break up and it was her broke up woth me! any who can help it welcome

I need your guys opinion on something. I made a mistake by dumping my ex. He was so nice, funny amd we could talk about anything. We only went out for 2months but it was a good relationship and everyone of my friends thought it would last a good while. The reason i broke up with him was because after one night out it seemed like i was held back and couldnt go about meeting other guys. I know this is a horrible reason and he dersevres much better than me but i still want him. He was crying when i broke up with him and asked could we ever get back and i said no which i regret. Which made it wprst was that i kissed someone else the day after the break up (i meet him that night out but didnt kiss him) and this brought my ex to tears and even talked to me about it.. i told him to move on and it none of his business and he told me he still wanted me.. Looking back i feel like such a ***** and i know i dont deserve him but im truely sorry for all the pain i have brought.Over the next month things changed with him. He was being friendly towards and always had a laugh with me and actually had decent conversations with me cause are in the same school (both 18). He started doing all this new things. he began football and started going to the gym and even is doing a charity sky dive and other things and to my knowledge kissed someone else. He seem so happy about his life and everyone in my school year thought he was great and a really decent guy which he is.It was ever since the fromal that i couldnt stop thinking about him. We went together as friends and during the slow dance i felt something. I even tried to kiss him but he moved his head and said no and walked away.. I now know i treated him like crap and he deserve better than me but i really want to try with and i know im ready and i want to have something better than last time. He was my first bf and one of only genuine guys i know. I know you may think he better off but how could i get him back? any ideas? :)