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Guys only please! Guys, is this true? How do I tell what he wants?

I have heard that when a guy wants a long- term commitment or relationship with you (and therefore actually loves you), he will wait for sex. He will not want to rush into things and ruin them. Or is this wrong? Do you guys, when you have found someone very special (and could see yourself with them in the future), think of sex as the last on your mind?

What are some things that will be obvious that he will show to let me know he actually cares for me and wants something real?

Thanks

Update:

I am almost 20 and he is almost 23.

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  • 7 years ago

    The honest truth is this: It does not matter how long he is willing to wait, how much he really loves you, sex is always the first thing on a guys mind, ESPECIALLY when he is a teenager. If he is willing to wait then I can almost guarantee that it is either because he knows that's the only way he will get some, OR he does really, or think he really, cares about you and respects you and will wait because you want to. People barely know what they are thinking or feeling at your age. I wouldn't look to deeply for signs of his intentions. Only time will tell you if he cares, cause really guys have been known to say anything if he thinks it will help him get laid.

    But given the chance he will never turn it down. Never.

  • 7 years ago

    Well people are different, but honestly men don't say no to sex, because we LOVE IT, It's always good to play hard like you dont want to have sex, but u make the guy try to have it, a guy will make your relationship good and long if you are different from other girls, if u 're too easy he skips you, if you're too hard, he will think u dont want anything with him.

    hope I could help ...

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    7 years ago

    Sex is still the first thing on his mind. However, he will be willing to wait if he is 100% sure she is "The One."

  • 7 years ago

    People used to say like that. People views are different. Some say without sex their wont be love. Other say their will be.. So it depends how you believe.

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