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Nightclub-how not to feel awkward?

So I'm going to the nightclub with my friends for the new year celebration and I'm a guy ..I like drinking and I can take it and I know my limit but I want to dance in a club ..you know ..with a chick ,but the problem is ..I won't have my confidence ..I know that my friends probably wont dance and I probably wont make them do so ..and its gonna stop me from going to the dnce floor ..also..how do you approach girls on the floor ..I don't wanna look creepy going for the dance and I dont want to dance by myself..we'll probably gonna take the table to hang around there but you know..I wana have max fun as I can get..I don't really lik ethe music to be honest

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    7 years ago
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    aw, how cute :)

    Well, the obvious answer is to get shitfaced so you don't care. Just go out to the dance floor when its really crowded and do the typical guy side-to-side thing that you all do. We don't care about your moves.

    And for the sweet love of christ DO NOT latch yourself onto some chick's @ss...get in front of her and smile and ask her name and then start dancing. Good luck!

    **oh and when the song is over, ask her if you can buy her a drink. We love that sh!t.

  • 7 years ago

    Weird question. Here in the UK people don't wait for their friends to get up and dance, and guys definitely don't wait for all their other guy friends to hit the dancefloor. That would be considered a bit gay here.

    Just get up and dance, even if the music is terrible. Be silly, have fun, dance badly. You don't need to approach any girls. Just enjoy the moment and have fun - make an idiot of yourself. Chances are that you'll attract some girls just for getting up on the dancefloor and being silly. Girls like a guy who is confident enough to do his own thing without caring about how silly it makes him look.

    So when all your other friends are standing around thinking they're too cool to dance, you'll be up there bustin' some moves and making a fool of yourself. But at the end of the night, you'll be going home with a girl and they won't.

  • 7 years ago

    If you are good looking and dressed nice, just go and dance with girls. If you are a wallflower, you'll get nowhere and end up dating Rosie Palmer.

    Chicks like to dance....they don't particularly care how good you are at it.

    I spent many years just hanging on the edges and wondering how to approach them. I would have had much better luck just going for it.

    Screw your buddies...if they're "too cool" to dance...they're the ones gonna go home empty handed while you may go home with some numbers or a date!

    If they make fun of you ask them how many girls did THEY get to hang with?

    No doubt you'll feel like an idiot dancing, but the girls like the effort you make.

  • 7 years ago

    If you really want to enjoy then just go out there and express yourself. Regardless of what others will think of u. Girls like expressive boys so don't be afraid and enjoy yourself.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    go there with corpse paint on and sit in the corner

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