What should I do about ending my relationship, but want to get back together with him?

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I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship by the way.

Update:

@Confused Girl: How does he not take me serious? Because I broke it off?

Brenda · Accepted Answer

The days of your life are ticking away as you waste each one on this dead end relationship. You can't know if you are soul mates through a computer or telephone. You have WAYYYY too much drama for two people that have never met in person and I can only guess that you are very young being that you actually believe you have some kind of future with him. Once you mature you will look at things differently.

Sorry but you barely know anything about him. He is an internet stranger and he could be doing the same thing with a number of other girls. You just don't know. Guys that do this regularly are REALLY good at it.

Sorry but you barely know anything about him.  He is an internet stranger and he could be doing the same thing with a number of other girls.  You just don't know.  Guys that do this regularly are REALLY good at it.

Anonymous · Answer

What is wrong with people these days? An online, texting, emailing relationship is not a real relationship! This man could be married or have a serious girlfriend. If someone is not in your everyday life or even occasionally physically there that is not a real relationship. Do yourself a favor and find a soul mate that is actually physically with you.

ANDRE L · Answer

OMG, 'relationships' that don't include meeting in person are so NOT the way to find a 'soul mate'. 

No, it's an abuser/abused 'relationship'.

Anonymous · Answer

you don't have any relationship with him, it is basically only an internet friendship
relationship is when you both are together in real world, not digital world
no, you have no relationship at all

Chantalle · Answer

Girl please... this guy does not take you seriously. Find yourself a man near you.

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