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I'm in a dominant/submissive relationship with a guy. There is a strong/bond connection between us, but every time I screw up he wants explicit photos or videos. The mistakes I make are very minor such as breaking it off with him at worst. I do this sometimes out of frustration when he won't discuss things that bother me, or I don't hear from him with no apology. Not the best way to handle it, but he knows how I can be this way too. He says he cures everything with sex, and won't talk to me again until I give him what he wants. Mind you, when you do give him what he wants the relationship is great. He will give you the moon and stars and treat you well. I will text him every day I love you's, and have a great day just to keep the connection going. He won't respond until he gets what he wants. In every aspect we're made for each other, but today it hit me, like why can't he talk about what happened? He texted me the other day, and said "we're not done." Give me what I want. So this is not a case of he's done with me. Any insight?

This school my daughter attends has a classmate, that when her mom drops her off, she leaves her 2 month old twins in the car with the doors locked. Mind you she's only running in for a few minutes. She walks 20 feet to hang her daughters stuff up, then walks her up the stairs, and goes back out to her car. Some of the teachers there are making a big deal out of it, and I think they should mind their own business. But I don't know if this is of real concern, and causes danger to the babies. Just want some opinions, since I am a mandated reporter.

Can anyone explain the difference, and is it comparable? In any case, who would win?

I met this guy (43 y/o), and we have this unbelievably strong connection. Most of our communicating is done by text, or phone. Ever so often we'll have a conversation, then all of a sudden he'll stop communications for no reason. Nothing happens. Recently he texted me, and I texted him back with a reply. Then I don't hear from him again for a couple days. So I'll text him and say, how's your day going? And I get no response. Then I might say, is everything okay? No response. Then I'll say geez, if you wanted out, just let me know. He does not answer to any of them. Then he will send me these mysterious texts. Like he wants me to get a reaction. He'll start it out like No, but usually, and then a bunch of symbols. Then he'll say, what you didn't like it in another text? It has nothing to do with anything. It seems like a pattern with him. Today's Valentine's Day, and no Happy Valentine's or anything. Just these mysterious text. Anybody have any input? He knows it's Valentine's Day, and doesn't even say Happy Valentine's Day which leads me to believe this is a mind game.

I met this guy (43 y/o), and we have this unbelievably strong connection. Most of our communicating is done by text, or phone. Ever so often we'll have a conversation, then all of a sudden he'll stop communications for no reason. Nothing happens. Recently he texted me, and I texted him back with a reply. Then I don't hear from him again for a couple days. So I'll text him and say, how's your day going? And I get no response. Then I might say, is everything okay? No response. Then I'll say geez, if you wanted out, just let me know. He does not answer to any of them. Then he will send me these mysterious texts. Like he wants me to get a reaction. He'll start it out like No, but usually, and then a bunch of symbols. Then he'll say, what you didn't like it in another text? It has nothing to do with anything. It seems like a pattern with him. Today's Valentine's Day, and no Happy Valentine's or anything. Just these mysterious text. Anybody have any input?

I'm in a dominant/submissive relationship, and for the most part it works really well. I don't mind being submissive. But every time I screw up, he won't talk to me. Usually it's over some kind of argument, and could take him months to get over.

Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. He's done this before when he's gotten mad at me, and ignores me. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. It's been a couple weeks now, and sent him a Merry Christmas today text today, and no response. Is this his way of punishing me? He's the type of guy if he truly didn't want something, he would let me know. So it leads me to believe there's more to it. When the relationship is going, it's going really well.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship by the way. I texted him, and wished him a Merry Christmas, and he will not respond. I'm not so convinced he wants to be done, because he's done this to me in the past, and if you send him an explicit text, or erotic pic he will respond, then things will be fine.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship by the way. I texted him, and wished him a Merry Christmas, and he will not respond. I'm not so convinced he wants to be done, because he's done this to me in the past, and if you send him an explicit text, or erotic pic he will respond, then things will be fine.

Figuratively, not literally.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship by the way.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship by the way.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship by the way.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet. It's a dominant/submissive relationship.

I met this guy online, and we have been having a relationship through text, and phone. The attraction is "soul mate" like, and we talked about me going out to his state to meet him, and even marriage. Recently, I was upset over some things that have been building up, and out of anger broke it off with him over text. Afterwards, I regret the decision, and realized it was an over reaction, and misunderstanding, and have sent a few texts, and a phone call, but he's not responding. Basically I asked if we could talk, and told him I felt my decision was extreme. He did this another time to me when he got upset over a comment I made, and didn't talk to me for five weeks. It was minor, and wasn't worth being mad at me over for five weeks. He cures everything with sex, and the last time he didn't talk to me I had to send him explicit messages, and then he responds, and everything is fine again. I don't have a problem doing that, but asked him if that's what he wanted from me again, and he's not responding. I don't want to end it yet, can anyone give me any advice on the situation?

I just need it for a one time use, and one time use only. I don't want one, or need one otherwise. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can obtain one temporarily? Can I buy one at a retail store, and return it? Any ideas would be helpful.

I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for the past four months. It's been getting really serious, but for some reason every time we get so close he pulls away even though he's aware of this strong feeling for me, and wants to pursue more. So after he started pulling away I addressed the issue, and said I was concerned he was afraid of commitment, and asked him why he contacts me less, and avoids my texts. He said he didn't know what brought it on, and I should stop second guessing him. I didn't really feel he took what I said into account. So I told him actions speak louder than words, and I told him I felt he could probably have a relationship with a non-committing girl because it was safe. Then I just broke it off over text, and said sorry it didn't work out. I feel real bad about the situation and would like to keep him in my life, maybe just as friends now since this happened. But he's real touchy, and holds grudges and probably won't reciprocate. How bad is it to break something off then take it back?

I met this guy online, and have not met him in person yet, but feel a real strong connection to him. Every night I have dreams about my ex-boyfriend who I have not been with for five years, nor do I ever think about him. I think about the new one constantly, but can't figure out why the ex-boyfriend comes up in my dreams, and not the new one.

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I'm dating this guy, and he hasn't had contact with me for awhile. He's mad at me for some reasons, but very minor, and he won't talk to me. But last night I got a phone call from him in a bar setting, and it was almost like he dialed my number accidentally, and I could hear his conversation. He was talking a lot about our issues, and me. Like the exact reasons he's avoiding me right now, was what he was discussing. But it was like a one way conversation, and I didn't hear another person talking. Then he went on to talk about me, and it was all good! But what are the chances he accidentally happens to dial my number is almost impossible. I'm not on his call list, so it's not like he could have hit a button, and if I was on his contact he would have had to go all the way down to L for my name. And his phone wasn't muffled, so it certainly wasn't in a pocked. He mentioned to me once, he has a hard time expressing himself. I wonder if it was intentional, and that's what he was doing? I wonder if he wanted to hear me on purpose? Possible it was a set-up?

I'm dating this guy, and he hasn't had contact with me for awhile. He's mad at me for some reasons, but very minor, and he won't talk to me. He also has a hard time expressing himself. But last night I got a phone call from him in a bar setting, and it was almost like he dialed my number accidentally, and I could hear his conversation. He was talking a lot about our issues, and me. Like the exact reasons he's avoiding me right now, was what he was discussing. But it was like a one way conversation, and I didn't hear another person talking. Then he went on to talk about me, and it was all good! But what are the chances he accidentally happens to dial my number is almost impossible. I'm not on his call list, so it's not like he could have hit a button, and if I was on his contact he would have had to go all the way down to L for my name. And his phone wasn't muffled, so it certainly wasn't in a pocked. He mentioned to me once, he has a hard time expressing himself. I wonder if it was intentional, and that's what he was doing? I wonder if he wanted to hear me on purpose? Possible it was a set-up?