How can i tell if these boys are making fun of me or not?

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Okay so basically I have a handful of those typical cocky rich, popular good looking boys ( they are all white and i'm middle eastern)  in some classes and they always seem to talk about how smart I am during class. Most of them have girlfriends and they aren't exactly kind to anyone outside their little group, yet whenever we have a test or contest in class they always "bet money on me" or want me on their team as their good luck charm/gold. We were playing a team game and two of them told me they "fought over me".This makes me a bit uncomfortable because i don't know if they're being genuine or calling me nerdy but they always smile at me and persist being friendly even though i just awkwardly smile back. I might be blowing this out of proportion but I always get this paranoia that everyone secretly hates me because i was bullied allot when i was younger.  I feel there is a better way for me to actually acknowledge them for their words, but at the same time i don't know if they're secretly making fun of me?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lol i have guys like that in my class, they always call me over to play music and i was bullied and shy in middle/elemtay school too. personally doesn't bother me. if they like you enough to want to talk to you then..well they must like you. haha. or you could just come out and ask if they're taunting/making fun of you

? · Answer

You should pick where and who you want to be with. Don't let them take control over you , you are the smartest , take control over them . Money won't make you smart remember that , don't act shy or quiet when with them it just makes them feel they're superior when they're not , who cares about the past you have a lot ahead of you , you could change it if you want to , your decision. Good Luck

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How can i tell if these boys are making fun of me or not?

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