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Should I get her anything for Christmas?

So I've been talking to a girl who is realllllllly interested in me, but we live about 2 hours from each other. We met on an online dating website, and we plan on meeting soon after Christmas. I asked her what she wanted for Christmas, she replied something like "Really?!?!?! you dont have to get me anything!!"... I don't know if that is just like a test or something, to see if I'll buy her something or not, lol.

Should I get her anything? We just talked about it last night.. If I should get her anything, what would you recommend?

Update:

what should i get her?!??? i have no idea lol. we've never even met yet!! i wanted to get her something because it would be really sweet to meet her and hand her a cute gift.. i can't really pick pj's out for a girl i've only seen pictures of, i dont think :/ i'd hate to buy the wrong size or something she doesnt like lol

Update 2:

i dont understand the 3rd persons answer. she said she doesn't want anything... so how is that her expecting a gift...? she thinks im not going to get her anything, but i wanted to know if i should surprise her by just getting her something small for christmas.

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  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    you haven't even met her yet. a gift seems a bit premature. Take her a nice plant or some flowers, not roses when you meet.

    EDIT- and think really hard about a woman who EXPECTS a gift from someone she's never met. She'll be expecting all kinds of things later...translation: greedy

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Omgg, you have a lot to learn myy friend... When girls say "you dont have to get me anything", there doing 2 things, 1.trying not to seem like a *****, 2.seeing if you care enough to actually get her something. So YES get her something. (: hope I helped(:

  • 7 years ago

    Trust me...GET HER SOMETHING!!

    Send her flowers or some cute pajamas or SOMETHING....don't over do it but YES....if u do not get her something she will be hurt! Get her something bc u want to...not bc u HAVE TO.

    Source(s): Been thru this....there's nothing worse than someone ASSUMING THEY DONT NEED TO GET U SOMETHONG.
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