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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

My friends never invite me to things?

It's really hard. I feel like I'm just that girl that sits with them at the lunch table. Sure, we text, but if we talk I always come up to them first to start a conversation. I haven't been to any of their houses, or anyone's for that matter this year. I used to go to their parties but they stopped inviting me. They post on instagram so that's how I know.

Help I'm sad :(

Advice would be appreciated.

And if you've gone through a similar thing, tell me a little about what you did.

Thank you so much :)

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  • 7 years ago
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    First, I am sorry that you are going through this. Im pretty positive that every teen has went through this. I sure have! When this happened to me I was in the 8th grade. I decided that I was worth something. I know that this is hard. I started randomly chatting with everyone in class, smiling, being happy and well rounded. I made sure that I was not clingy to my old friends or new friends. The worst thing that you can do is chase people. Be confident in yourself! You are worth something. If you are content being independent, things will fall into place. Do not place your old friends higher than yourself.

  • 7 years ago

    Ive had a problem like this, i always thought it was because i was foreign. It really was that they didnt want me around. Sure at school they saw me but i wasent invited to anything.

    I moved and got new friends, i saw that really i needed diffrent friends. It might be hard getting new friends in the same place but if you can do it then you will see the diffrence

  • 7 years ago

    Don't take it personally. That has nothing to do with you. Most people aren't aware of how they are treating others/excluding others. So, don't take it personally. Try being happy for your friends. Then, move on with your life to include other people and experiences. Don't sit at home and watch what they are posting on social media - get out there and live your own post worthy moments. Take classes, join social groups, see what is happening in your area and join in! What goals do you want to reach? School, career, exercise, health. There is so much more to life than people who are excluding you. Invest in yourself via health and classes and self improvement, things you are interested in. No one is forcing you to sit at home. So get out there and have some fun! Even if it is by yourself.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    i sent ur question to a facebook page https://www.facebook.com/ChroniclesOfOnesLife?hc_l...

    keep an eye on it and i hope people will answer u.

    My opinion:

    I also went through something similar. i think u sometimes got to take a break from social network and jst be alone. or block them from fb and instagram. make urself friends with people who appreciate you. dnt follow the number, follow the originality. just because u have one friend doesnt mean ur not cool. rather have one friend then ten fake ones. they are obviously not ur friends because if they were, they would invite you.

  • 7 years ago

    I have gone through simular events :( one of my friends invited all of my friends except me to her birthday party. It is a pretty miserable feeling, overall the reason your friends do it is because they find you insulting or they are jealous of you because you are obviously more intelligent or something more than them. The smart way to go about it is to socialize with other groups and move on. Why waste your time hanging around people who are not nice to you?

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Try inviting them over to ur house, for a party or something. But... U may have to reconsider ur friends. I personally dont even like girls that have parties and I dont think any of my friends have an instagram. Its not as hard as it may seem to switch friends. But Idk I need more factors to answer ur ? Better

  • 7 years ago

    Stop hanging out with 'friends' like that. If they truly saw you as a friend, they would have invited you too.

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