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Ok so I want to talk with her more but I don't want to be creepy about it. Help?
Ok so here's more background info about what I need help and/or advice with. I go to the library pretty often to study and relax. (Might sound a bit nerdy but I am pretty sociable and enjoy being at other places too lol) Lately, one of the girls there really has my attention. I'm very attracted to her and want to hang out with her and get to know her. I've already talked to her about 3-4 times and found out that she goes to the same university as me, what she is studying (told me she is a transfer student as well, she's fairly open about herself) and other details related about that. She'll switch around the help desks at the library and I manage to get a few minutes conversation with her without disrupting her from her work. Since she is from around where I live but new to the university we both attend (she recently transferred), I want to make her feel welcome and ask her to join a student club I'm in and maybe even date (I don't want to come off to strong) I guess you could say that I want to ask for her number, but I don't want to make her uncomfortable since we are in a public setting, that is to say her work setting and end up having things get awkward. She seems pretty receptive but should I continue with a few more shirt conversations with her to ask for her number and all or just go for it? I want to know what you all think and I prefer to hear advice from girls.
3 Answers
- 7 years ago
Me personally, in a work setting I wouldn't mind. Takes some pressure off of me. I could be like sure here and then get away and say I have to get back to work! makes it so I I avoid the awkwardness.....but thats me. You could plan a date, like go to a poetry reading thats in some public place, a movie coming out, maybe a museum in the area that you think shed like, some event and ask her if she'd wanna go, tell her some of it, and say you were looking for someone to go with. Then ask for her number to text her more details later off work.
this is coming from a nerdy girl who spent all her time in the library reading and studying and being pretty unsociable....Someone who gets nervous easily and falls under pressure in real life. Coming up to me and just asking me out to do something that I'd enjoy is fine, and you'd clearly need my number so its not awkward to give it out.
But some girls like it straight out ;D Judge her personality!
- 7 years ago
If she's new to the area maybe suggest some good things to see and do, then offer to be her guide. Give her your number saying if you ever need help with anything just give me a text
- 7 years ago
ask her what is her favorite place to eat and would she like to go some time. give her your number to call you. it will let her know you are a nice person,because she won't feel pressured. you give her the option to think about it then make her decision. continue to talk to her as usual. stay friendly with her.wait awhile to ask her again if she doesn't bring it up.
