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I could really use advice right now please?

I know that my friend values our friendship but when her other friend is around its like she doesn't know me or something. She always hangs out with her "better" friend but she never asks me to hang out with her. I'm ignoring her right now to see if she'll come to me for once. I'm always there for her but I don't think she's always there for me, sometimes I get the feeling that I'm her "backup" when no one else is there. I just want her other friend to break her heart in some way so she'll come to me for once! I need some advice on how to tell her how I feel because I'm not good at "letting people in" and it puts me in a very vulnerable position. What should I say to her?

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  • 7 years ago
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    You are doing right. Her behavior is not acceptable.

  • 7 years ago

    been through the exact same thing, my suggestions is make a few more friends and cultivate those friendships , the thing is she inst doing it on perpose, she just might have a lot of friends that feel the same way you do, so she hanging out ith a broader group, dont feel bad about it get a fe more friends soo you'll be jsut as busy as she is

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    You shouldn't say anything to her. You should just realize the fact that you are a loser and her other friend is probably cooler, better looking, and more liked by everyone else. Give up your dreams of ever being cool and or popular and just stick to hanging around with losers like yourself. Or you could start smoking meth. Then at least you feel cool about yourself.

  • 7 years ago

    Well, maybe she doesn't like you as much as the other friends? There are probably friends of yours that you prefer. Maybe you should get friendly with her friend :)

  • 7 years ago

    Tell her how you feel and that if she doesn't start including you that you'll do the same to her. Doesn't sound like a real friend to me..

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